"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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To you young DJs......

cave dweller

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This is for the young guys here:

I am 59 years old....(the oldest guy on this board)

and

Last year my gf (we dated over 4 years) laughted in my face and drove off to be with her new man....

Now 14 months later she calls me and wants to get back together....

................Not no, but, Hell No!...........................

(she wanted that son-of-a-bytch and she can have him)

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DiMallio

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good man..... only give respect to a female if its deserved.. looks like u had the last laugh:D
 

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Thanks........

Thanks,

You dammm right............

She don't need to call here talking all of her old 'jive'.

"She can have any son-of-a-bytch she wants, but, she can't have the cave dweller."

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What I would do is give her the illusion that you are considering taking her back. Sleep with her one more time (for the sake of it) then laugh in her face when she mentions the whole "getting back together" idea.
 

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kiss.........

Hey,

She told me:

"I have not kissed or made love to anyone since we broke up."

Wow.....................

I can't believe that she said that bull @ss jive.....

(I guess for the last 14 months she has been a nun)

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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