"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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To worry or not to?

arcilitei34

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Well whats worse? meeting parents, or having parents found out about your relationship? anyways, this is what happened.
There's this one girl that i've been dating for maybe the last two months, me and her both go to differant highschool's so its not too bad. But a few days ago, we were making out and i accidentally left a hickey or two on her neck, anyways lesson learned there.
But the very same day she never really covered it up and her parents found out, so instead of lying she told me that she told them everything, and basically she just got *****ed at for several hours from her parents. But now her parents know, i knew her dad as her friend, but never has her boyfriend haha. Anyways, when i talked to her on the phone she didnt seem mad or sad at all that she was being yelled at for what happened, more or less happy/fine, which struck me as very odd.
But i guess my question is, is that should i really worry about all this and her parents?

Thanks in advanced for feedback. =)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jerky Boi

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Don't worry about it. From what I've been through, if you can't get along with her parents or if they don't really like you, more than likely they wont let her go out with you any.
 

Best friends? NAY

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Whats wrong with meeting parents at all? The odds are they arn't goin go crazy on unless your like a 19 year old dating a 13 year old.
 

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maybe she likes that her parents are mad...females are nuts dont ever think to hard about what they do or say.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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arcilitei34

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her mom's a little crazy/intimidating, her dad's alright/laidback, i figure, i should just meet one and not the other. :cool:
 

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mums are always easy to charm, just behave politely and decently and dont answer back. Or you can flirt with them too (that works a real treat sometimes)
 
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