"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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To those who want to find love

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Would you give up all the comforts of living in your home country, with all your friends and family, if it meant spending the next good 35 years of your life with a woman who you get along with and "love"?

How far would you go for " love"?

Playa patnahs don't need to answer... I'm asking serious dudes who still want that particular lifestyle.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Well unfortunately for me I only know English so no. If I did know another language very fluently and understood the slang of it too, then maybe. Still bot sure though. I doubt ut will ever happen though so I don't really care.
 

CuddleJunkie

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No. Marriage is the only reason to spend so much time with only one woman, and it is for life or it isn't, I'm not interested in 35 years. And this implies I would live in a society worth me sacrificing sexual abundance in order to create a family so that society can grow stronger. No such society in the West nowadays, so no, **** "love".
 

mrgoodstuff

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No. Marriage is the only reason to spend so much time with only one woman, and it is for life or it isn't, I'm not interested in 35 years. And this implies I would live in a society worth me sacrificing sexual abundance in order to create a family so that society can grow stronger. No such society in the West nowadays, so no, **** "love".
No one said that you couldn't have sexual abundance with a wife or ltr. She just have to love and respect you enough to keep giving it.
 

CuddleJunkie

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No one said that you couldn't have sexual abundance with a wife or ltr. She just have to love and respect you enough to keep giving it.
I wanted to use variety. The point is still the same...for DJs entering marriage is a sacrifice, for a beta is his best sexual strategy. I would happily make such a sacrifice for the Republican Rome, Florence....name a great society, I would create a strong family without doubt...but not for this suicidal West.
I'm talking about marriage here, not about ltr...ltrs have their pros no doubt, but they are not for life.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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GoodOne123

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The truth is that there are many women we can fall in love with. So finding someone else is not impossible, and only a matter of time and effort.

Giving up all of that is a lot, and generally I'd be a bit wary of doing that just for love. But there are certain situations where you just know you will regret not taking a chance and going for it.
 

mrgoodstuff

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I wanted to use variety. The point is still the same...for DJs entering marriage is a sacrifice, for a beta is his best sexual strategy. I would happily make such a sacrifice for the Republican Rome, Florence....name a great society, I would create a strong family without doubt...but not for this suicidal West.
I'm talking about marriage here, not about ltr...ltrs have their pros no doubt, but they are not for life.
I don't need variety, a cook can serve up many different meals so I don't need a few hundred cooks. I need a lady who respects relationships who prefers it that way who won't be corrupted by our culture. So searching for the "hot girl" is a bad strategy for this.
 

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I have been in love and it wont happen again. What am I looking for? IDK but I will f uck as many women as I can and if I find a good one I might keep her. But I won't be in love.
 
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