"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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To those who still have their v-cards, how far have you gone with a girl?

SoSuave virgins, how far have you gotten with a girl?

  • Virgin and have never kissed a girl

    Votes: 7 20.6%
  • Virgin but have kissed a girl (or first base)

    Votes: 3 8.8%
  • Virgin but have felt up a girl (or second base)

    Votes: 2 5.9%
  • Virgin but have fingered a girl (or third base)

    Votes: 4 11.8%
  • Virgin but have given/received oral sex

    Votes: 3 8.8%
  • I am not a virgin

    Votes: 15 44.1%

  • Total voters
    34

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Eternal_water said:
If no girls are willing to have sex with you then you remain a virgin unless you take it by force, but that gets frowned upon.
True, rape is not best way to have sex with a girl, its also illegal is most civilized countries.

Never understand guys who say no girls are willing to have sex with them.
They expect girls to rip off their clothes because they are virgin and the girl owes to them. That type of thinking will leave you stuck in mud.

If no company is willing to hire you after several tries - what do you do? You go improve your skills and interview techniques. It's the same thing with girls. If you've been rejected over and over by girls, its not because you are guy, or the girl is looking for absolute prince, its cause you haven't mastered the skills.

It's not rocket science, it's biology.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Trump said:
True, rape is not best way to have sex with a girl, its also illegal is most civilized countries.

Never understand guys who say no girls are willing to have sex with them.
They expect girls to rip off their clothes because they are virgin and the girl owes to them. That type of thinking will leave you stuck in mud.

If no company is willing to hire you after several tries - what do you do? You go improve your skills and interview techniques. It's the same thing with girls. If you've been rejected over and over by girls, its not because you are guy, or the girl is looking for absolute prince, its cause you haven't mastered the skills.

It's not rocket science, it's biology.
and why do a lot of guys master these skills or were born with these "skills" at an early age? are some guys literaly, logically born with the social-skills, conversation-skills, "game" in order to pull girls?
One person told me this about biology, evolution, he says "the way dating and relationships, hook-ups, sex, works is that every woman is useful but only the best men are required, so be one of them" so basically women have higher standards, expectations than men do.
 
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