"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
To those People who says "Looks mean nothing"
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
well looks are just as important as personality , everyone likes to say that looks mean nothing, but they wouldnt let a guy who dresses up as urkel wanna date them....
But if he was a huuuge player , he might get the chick, but that rarely happens.... And the same goes for guys , if they see a playboy model or a medium built chick , of course they are gonna go for the model.but thats cuz we are driven by a more powerful thing then our brains, our di\cks,....
its just some made up bull when they say looks dont matter , they always matter when you meet someone new.....But looks dont matter when it comes to love, and that happens when you two know each other pretty well....
looks help you through the door but personality keeps you in the room.....
(oh and i rate myself a 8 - 8,5, ..... chicks rated me a 9 =P )
But if he was a huuuge player , he might get the chick, but that rarely happens.... And the same goes for guys , if they see a playboy model or a medium built chick , of course they are gonna go for the model.but thats cuz we are driven by a more powerful thing then our brains, our di\cks,....
its just some made up bull when they say looks dont matter , they always matter when you meet someone new.....But looks dont matter when it comes to love, and that happens when you two know each other pretty well....
looks help you through the door but personality keeps you in the room.....
(oh and i rate myself a 8 - 8,5, ..... chicks rated me a 9 =P )
Looks matter. And they don't.
Girls rate guys on looks. Certain girls like certain looks. There is more too being good looking than being born with a beautiful face. Girls love a man who dresses well. They love a man who walks a certain way. They love a man who holds eye contact in a confident manner. Every girl has her type, and a guy she might not be attracted to would be a different story if he had some tattoos. Or rode a motorcycle. Or an Armani suit. Whether you're good looking or not really depends on the girl. Don't waste your time trying to rate yourself.
But, like the above poster touched on, there are some looks that very few women are attracted to. These are looks that communicate a low social status (aka nerd). This is the androgenous male, the perfect Clark Kent. The all-too-nice guy, who doesn't deserve the woman because he's a wuss.
Dating is a competition, always, and it's the highest status male who gets the girl. The highest status male, that is, who isn't disqualified for whatever petty reason that girls disqualify men. Some vegetarians only date vegetarians. Some girls would never date a guy who voted for Bush (or didn't... depends on who she is). It's all a matter of taste.
Some looks look good to a lot of women. This is when you look powerful. Sexual. Interesting. Different. You are unabashedly noticeable, and perfectly aware of it - but you still can walk in the door like you own the place because you don't care how you look.
Most of what matters about looks are things that you are perfectly in control of. Other things might be that you can't change them, but as often or not these are tastes that vary from girl to girl.
And no guy on this forum is that bad looking that he can't get a girl. Even a good looking girl.
So looks don't matter. They change the equation, but they're not then end-all be-all of attraction.I say looks don't matter so guys will stop using it as an excuse. It's only worth discussing in an academic sense, or in terms of what one can do to improve his looks. Beyond that, it's just idle talk. They do, they don't - whatever.
The point is, when you see that hot girl and you're ready to go talk to her, the last thing that should be going through your head is "She won't like my anyway, I'm too ugly" At this point in the game, it's nothing but a limiting belief. And that's bad. It's bad because...
Whether you think you can, or you think you can't, you're probably right
BrotherAP
Girls rate guys on looks. Certain girls like certain looks. There is more too being good looking than being born with a beautiful face. Girls love a man who dresses well. They love a man who walks a certain way. They love a man who holds eye contact in a confident manner. Every girl has her type, and a guy she might not be attracted to would be a different story if he had some tattoos. Or rode a motorcycle. Or an Armani suit. Whether you're good looking or not really depends on the girl. Don't waste your time trying to rate yourself.
But, like the above poster touched on, there are some looks that very few women are attracted to. These are looks that communicate a low social status (aka nerd). This is the androgenous male, the perfect Clark Kent. The all-too-nice guy, who doesn't deserve the woman because he's a wuss.
Dating is a competition, always, and it's the highest status male who gets the girl. The highest status male, that is, who isn't disqualified for whatever petty reason that girls disqualify men. Some vegetarians only date vegetarians. Some girls would never date a guy who voted for Bush (or didn't... depends on who she is). It's all a matter of taste.
Some looks look good to a lot of women. This is when you look powerful. Sexual. Interesting. Different. You are unabashedly noticeable, and perfectly aware of it - but you still can walk in the door like you own the place because you don't care how you look.
Most of what matters about looks are things that you are perfectly in control of. Other things might be that you can't change them, but as often or not these are tastes that vary from girl to girl.
And no guy on this forum is that bad looking that he can't get a girl. Even a good looking girl.
So looks don't matter. They change the equation, but they're not then end-all be-all of attraction.I say looks don't matter so guys will stop using it as an excuse. It's only worth discussing in an academic sense, or in terms of what one can do to improve his looks. Beyond that, it's just idle talk. They do, they don't - whatever.
The point is, when you see that hot girl and you're ready to go talk to her, the last thing that should be going through your head is "She won't like my anyway, I'm too ugly" At this point in the game, it's nothing but a limiting belief. And that's bad. It's bad because...
Whether you think you can, or you think you can't, you're probably right
BrotherAP
mactheripper
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I've also noticed vocal quality is an issue too... A lot of those average looking guys who do well with women have great resonating voices and a way with words......a nasal voice is your enemy!
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
guys stop stressing about all this looks bull$hit
i have seen dudes missing teeth stretch marks tattoos career criminals pull hot women
but you say they were crims and women love bad boys
then you just hopefully
caught the f*ck on that it's not about looks
rich dirty old grey haired politician f*cking gorgeous women
looks ?
hell no
power
now thats 2 examples of ugly dudes that pull women
if looks mattered so much would not the women be repulsed ?
it's a few different things
confidence is a big one probably the biggest
money
power
f*ck give women a theme they like and you get 10 extra points
any theme yes women are that damn fickle
emo = 10 points cause dolly magazine said that is the new bad boy
b*tches are programmed HARDCORE and the sooner some of you wake up to this the sooner you can create an agle and market yourself
yes using an angle is using a gimick but women love a reason to be a h0
if you are super confident then you don't really need an angle but most people won't get there
i grew a great deal in confidence from retail sales
everyday i'd speak to people on the phone and on the sales floor
people of all ages
make jokes and entertain while i sell them items
fear of approaching ?
i greeted every customer and asked if they had any questions or needed assistance
how many times was i rejected ?
57,641
and some of thoe rejections were VERY rude
fear of approaching ? become a salesperson and kill it
another way is to tap into the subconcious programming that most young western women in 2005 have been programmed with
you say the right trigger words and the shields come down and the rest is on you
i have seen women have sex for the most stupid reasons
why ?
because they were made to feel an EMOTION or THEME
and half the forum that can't get women your problem is you think they are fairy princesses
maybe once upon a time when parents chose who their daughters married and they had sex with 1 man their whole lives
but now in 2005
the sooner you walk up and talk to every woman below 25 with the mindset she is a wh0re the sooner you will get some honesty from them and they respect you because they know you are a real man ( a rare and almost exstinct creature )
i do advise everyone to exercise
not for the women
for your health/confidence/self protection
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
i have seen dudes missing teeth stretch marks tattoos career criminals pull hot women
but you say they were crims and women love bad boys
then you just hopefully
caught the f*ck on that it's not about looks
rich dirty old grey haired politician f*cking gorgeous women
looks ?
hell no
power
now thats 2 examples of ugly dudes that pull women
if looks mattered so much would not the women be repulsed ?
it's a few different things
confidence is a big one probably the biggest
money
power
f*ck give women a theme they like and you get 10 extra points
any theme yes women are that damn fickle
emo = 10 points cause dolly magazine said that is the new bad boy
b*tches are programmed HARDCORE and the sooner some of you wake up to this the sooner you can create an agle and market yourself
yes using an angle is using a gimick but women love a reason to be a h0
if you are super confident then you don't really need an angle but most people won't get there
i grew a great deal in confidence from retail sales
everyday i'd speak to people on the phone and on the sales floor
people of all ages
make jokes and entertain while i sell them items
fear of approaching ?
i greeted every customer and asked if they had any questions or needed assistance
how many times was i rejected ?
57,641
and some of thoe rejections were VERY rude
fear of approaching ? become a salesperson and kill it
another way is to tap into the subconcious programming that most young western women in 2005 have been programmed with
you say the right trigger words and the shields come down and the rest is on you
i have seen women have sex for the most stupid reasons
why ?
because they were made to feel an EMOTION or THEME
and half the forum that can't get women your problem is you think they are fairy princesses
maybe once upon a time when parents chose who their daughters married and they had sex with 1 man their whole lives
but now in 2005
the sooner you walk up and talk to every woman below 25 with the mindset she is a wh0re the sooner you will get some honesty from them and they respect you because they know you are a real man ( a rare and almost exstinct creature )
i do advise everyone to exercise
not for the women
for your health/confidence/self protection
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You guys are just trying to rationalize the fact that you guys are not pulling HBs. I am talking to this HB and she said her 75 year old GRANDFATHER pulls girls her own age (25). And when he died 2 months ago there were close to 100 women her age at the funeral with a 24 hour notice.
Sarging at firs is really hard and you will get shut down A LOT but, after awhile it will get easy.
ALSo, women are emotional creatures, and they will have sex with you if their emotions are high enough. It is your job to create that emotion.
Sarging at firs is really hard and you will get shut down A LOT but, after awhile it will get easy.
ALSo, women are emotional creatures, and they will have sex with you if their emotions are high enough. It is your job to create that emotion.
Originally posted by Lost In Translation
guys stop stressing about all this looks bull$hit
i have seen dudes missing teeth stretch marks tattoos career criminals pull hot women
but you say they were crims and women love bad boys
then you just hopefully
caught the f*ck on that it's not about looks
rich dirty old grey haired politician f*cking gorgeous women
looks ?
hell no
power
now thats 2 examples of ugly dudes that pull women
if looks mattered so much would not the women be repulsed ?
it's a few different things
confidence is a big one probably the biggest
money
power
f*ck give women a theme they like and you get 10 extra points
any theme yes women are that damn fickle
emo = 10 points cause dolly magazine said that is the new bad boy
b*tches are programmed HARDCORE and the sooner some of you wake up to this the sooner you can create an agle and market yourself
yes using an angle is using a gimick but women love a reason to be a h0
if you are super confident then you don't really need an angle but most people won't get there
i grew a great deal in confidence from retail sales
everyday i'd speak to people on the phone and on the sales floor
people of all ages
make jokes and entertain while i sell them items
fear of approaching ?
i greeted every customer and asked if they had any questions or needed assistance
how many times was i rejected ?
57,641
and some of thoe rejections were VERY rude
fear of approaching ? become a salesperson and kill it
another way is to tap into the subconcious programming that most young western women in 2005 have been programmed with
you say the right trigger words and the shields come down and the rest is on you
i have seen women have sex for the most stupid reasons
why ?
because they were made to feel an EMOTION or THEME
and half the forum that can't get women your problem is you think they are fairy princesses
maybe once upon a time when parents chose who their daughters married and they had sex with 1 man their whole lives
but now in 2005
the sooner you walk up and talk to every woman below 25 with the mindset she is a wh0re the sooner you will get some honesty from them and they respect you because they know you are a real man ( a rare and almost exstinct creature )
i do advise everyone to exercise
not for the women
for your health/confidence/self protection
fycking A. True dat.
The hottest bytches I fycked in the shortest possible time were the ones I expressed my sexuality in the most direct way.
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
Well obviously looks mean something to everyone. If it didnt, models wouldnt have pretty faces.
And to state the obvious lets say you met 2 girls, with the exact same experiences, personality, characteristics and qualities. The only problem is one is a hb 5 and the other is a hb9. no sh!t you'd want the hb9.
Girls obviously would do the same also.
I mean who in this world wouldnt want the 'full package', the best of the best?
But since the scenario that i mentioned rarely exists at the same time...having 2 available options. people will have to make compromises.
Girls are more lenient and forgiving with looks if you can back it up with your inner qualities. all i gotta say is just be the best you can be even though you may not change your physical attributes (with the exception of plastic surgery).
And to state the obvious lets say you met 2 girls, with the exact same experiences, personality, characteristics and qualities. The only problem is one is a hb 5 and the other is a hb9. no sh!t you'd want the hb9.
Girls obviously would do the same also.
I mean who in this world wouldnt want the 'full package', the best of the best?
But since the scenario that i mentioned rarely exists at the same time...having 2 available options. people will have to make compromises.
Girls are more lenient and forgiving with looks if you can back it up with your inner qualities. all i gotta say is just be the best you can be even though you may not change your physical attributes (with the exception of plastic surgery).
In high school I had a friend named Andre. He was a fat, ugly hispanic kid but he was a real ladies' man. Andre had no physical advantages, he was running on 100% personality & charisma. I wish I'd had the good sense to study him at the time.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
Looks mean everything unless you have money, then looks dont mean ****.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.