"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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To the women on this forum - why?

ketostix

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
This is why women should be banned.

"We're pretty hot." Who gives a rat's ass? Nothing personal, but nobody's looking to hook up on this site. If nothing else you people are a distraction. Take that one guy that asked LiVa to marry him because he thinks she's hot. :rolleyes: Sad.
Deus, are you really that dense and lack a sense of humor that much? I was making a joke about more of a girl being anti-feministic is rare. You really are obsessed with any mention of people's looks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LivA

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ketostix said:
The problem is bisexual or homosexual PU is not the same thing. A woman will always respond differently to another woman than a man gaming her.
Yeah, true. I feel so sorry for you guys having to deal with them, really. You don't have a choice, unless you want to bone a dude, but even gay dudes act like little whiny bi*ches.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I say what better way to see the nature of women than when they post justifications for their actions in a men's forum? If you are a guy who considers women as "the enemy," why not consider Sun-tzu quote "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer."
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I say what better way to see the nature of women than when they post justifications for their actions in a men's forum? If you are a guy who considers women as "the enemy," why not consider Sun-tzu quote "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer."
Word... And to you insecure guys who want to ban women, what, are you not man enough to debate a female point of view, and perhaps even learn in the process?
 
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