"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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To the playas that don't smoke and actually get makeouts within 10-15mins...

jj123

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Lets say you've been in the game and you can get girls interested in you and actually get make outs with girls you just met in like 10-15mins at a bar/club or anywhere... BUT she lights up a cig during your conversation while still showing a lot of interest in you and laughing/vibing with your conversation...she then finishes her cig and the both of you go back into the bar and talk some more...then about 5 mins later she wants to make out with you problem is you DON'T smoke and this girl is a HB9-10 what the heck do you playas do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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horaholic

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i make out with her anyway. But... I used to smoke....And.. it doesnt happen THAT often.

But, if it bothered me, i would hand her a piece of gum, and very cool-ly tell her you dont want to lick an ashtray. If she's been drinking, it will usually mask the smoke anyway.

BTW, what difference does it make whether its 15 minutes or two days? Its the same thing.
 

AAAgent

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i love when girls that smoke think just cause we both smoke they can strike up a conversation with me. i think for smokers its important to figure out if she's a social smoker that only does it to be cool or when she drinks or a person that smokes because they smoke everyday. If she's a SMOKER, then i don't see why she'd be any harder to talk to. smoking would just be part of her daily course of actions while the social smoker/AW is only either doing it to stand out or fit in. if you're a social smoker that's cool i don't mind chatting with you or starting a convo but if you smoke because you think it makes you cool i think that's just stupid.
 

Prodigy746

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Grrr, i hate smokers period. One time i told a girl at work when i saw her smoking,
Me:You smoke ?
her: yes
Me: Thats such a turnoff
Her: blah blah starts giving out excuses and saying how she will quit.
 

KontrollerX

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It'd probably turn me off enough to go find another chick honestly.

I don't do smokers. :down:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jj123

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Yea I'd find another chick but it seems all these hott chicks smoke these days
 

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Sharing is caring.... if you carry gum/breath strips/listerine in your back pocket, feel free to share. Better to make out with a mint tree then an ashtray.

I should add that I was going out with this chick once, and I've always been a bit crazy about mints. Mint of the day was starbicks cinnamon, so i popped a couple in my mouth started making out and gave her some. Took her a few seconds afterwards to realize I left something in her mouth.
 

Ridingthelightning

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I smoke on occasion, and because of this I've found I'll **** anything thats attractive. Chain smokers I won't date.
 

evoken

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I honestly don't see what the big deal is with a girl smoking.
 

Duffdog

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evoken said:
I honestly don't see what the big deal is with a girl smoking.
I don't either. And I would still make out with a smoker chic if she was hot. I would just make sure she had a shot of jagermeister.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cannot Get Girls

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evoken said:
I honestly don't see what the big deal is with a girl smoking.
cause its gross man. it makes your breath, fingers, and clothes stink and is proven to cause life-threatening illnesses. cigarette smoking is a sign of weakness as it indicates either an addiction to nicotine and/or the social ice-breaker it presents, or the inability/lack of desire to prevent an unpleasant drawn-out death and lugging an O2 tank around with you wherever you go. or all of the above.

that's why i can't stand female smokers at least. just my 2 cents.
 

Poonani Maker

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I don't even Do chicks with tatoos. No telling who she fvcked for a free tat.
 

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Well being a smoker myself, it doesn't really bother me. But if it ever did, then I'd simply just find another woman. There's no point in trying to pretend, it's still a boner kill.
 
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