"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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To the people who took time to put the DJ Bible together..

irocknike23

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Thank you so much.

I'm only 1/3 of the way done with it and I know so much...I learned more about women in a week of reading that guide than I have getting advice and tips for the past 8 years since I turned 13.

I actually know why girls have left me in the past, I fully understand it(and I feel like a little b*tch!). But its ok...I know now on the do's and donts and so on..


And to the people who post in here once in a while that they have read the DJ bible all the way and STILL cant get girls(I see that from time to time)....you guys must not be putting any effort into it OR not applying anything it said. That guide transforms you into Hitch...that's all I can compare it to.


I'm not saying I will get every girl in the world now, not by any means but DAMN do I know so much about how a girls mind works and what to do and not to do....and I'm only 1/3 of the way done with it...and have yet to start the new one.

Ok...vent done lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Strelok

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The dj bible is a great start but its too old to consider changes in culture and technology after a decade.

There is no mention of social networks and how they screw up lot of guys which would have done pretty well before them.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Strelok said:
The dj bible is a great start but its too old to consider changes in culture and technology after a decade.

There is no mention of social networks and how they screw up lot of guys which would have done pretty well before them.
social networks are where white knights play. cant stand them.
 
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