“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
To the older gentlemen: What age do you feel you were at your prime?
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Atom Smasher
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55. Seriously, but I'm a late bloomer.
Scaramouche
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Dear StEr,
68..... In terms of desirability,it just gets better and better ...in terms of abilities I probably peaked at 37!
68..... In terms of desirability,it just gets better and better ...in terms of abilities I probably peaked at 37!
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The fact that everybody cited their current age for their supposed "prime"
is telling ...
My prime?
15.
I was the president of the highschool council.
is telling ...
My prime?
15.
I was the president of the highschool council.
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I was expecting more serious answers to this question
to be honest it depend on the place and the situation too .
when I was 28 I though I passed my prime and no more young beautiful girls desire me , when I moved to new city ( I found a new job ) . I found a young blonds still interested in me and I got a 22 HB9 blonde. while I was thinking I should no longer try under 25 age, but that wasn't true .
to be honest it depend on the place and the situation too .
when I was 28 I though I passed my prime and no more young beautiful girls desire me , when I moved to new city ( I found a new job ) . I found a young blonds still interested in me and I got a 22 HB9 blonde. while I was thinking I should no longer try under 25 age, but that wasn't true .
3countriesPlan
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dude that had nothing to do with your prime it had more to do with your market. the truth is in some cities you wont get so much female attention and in others you will be balls deep Im not sure when my peak is but I assume desirability peaks in the 30s as you are still young but have plenty of wisdom
evan12 said:
SecondHalf
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I'd say in my mid 30s.
The body building was easy, recovery quick.
You've established yourself and had some disposable income.
I'm not complaining now though.
Alcohol affects my ability to climax more, but I'm slower coming around anyway. This can be a drag, but if you keep in shape you can go the distance.
I don't work out the same way I did as I'd likely have an injury or two.
The key to aging is keep fit, stay active and eat well and you really don't feel that different than you did as a much younger man.
SH
The body building was easy, recovery quick.
You've established yourself and had some disposable income.
I'm not complaining now though.
Alcohol affects my ability to climax more, but I'm slower coming around anyway. This can be a drag, but if you keep in shape you can go the distance.
I don't work out the same way I did as I'd likely have an injury or two.
The key to aging is keep fit, stay active and eat well and you really don't feel that different than you did as a much younger man.
SH
zekko
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I agree with some of the other oldsters on here. I'm 52, but I actually think I can attract more women now than ever before. And yes, that includes women in their 20s. Part of this is obviously my mindset, but I really do think I have more options now than ever. I know the younger guys will not want to hear it, or believe it, but it's the truth. One reason is I think I have a more confidence and a more concrete sense of my own value now.
Now if you're asking about physical peak, I'd say mid 20s to mid 30s, although I think technically they say a man starts to physically go downhill in his mid 20s. I can't lift as much as I used to, because my joints won't hold up. Also, at my age, if you don't keep a tight rein on your diet and exercise, you can go to seed pretty quickly.
But (and this is crazy) I actually think I'm better looking now than then. At least I feel a lot more comfortable looking in the mirror now. Maybe it's just me, but some guys do get better looking as they get older.
Now if you're asking about physical peak, I'd say mid 20s to mid 30s, although I think technically they say a man starts to physically go downhill in his mid 20s. I can't lift as much as I used to, because my joints won't hold up. Also, at my age, if you don't keep a tight rein on your diet and exercise, you can go to seed pretty quickly.
But (and this is crazy) I actually think I'm better looking now than then. At least I feel a lot more comfortable looking in the mirror now. Maybe it's just me, but some guys do get better looking as they get older.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
This is slightly off topic, but one of the theories presented (I believe in 'The Myth of Monogamy') for why women actively seek older men has to do with genetics and the ability to survive; same reason they go for *******s.
Azzhole gets what he wants and can spread his seed (genes). Girl may not like azzhole, but because he can spread his genes, breeding with him and having an azzhole baby who can further spread genes is a good deal, biologically speaking.
Older man was able to survive and thrive, so longer life span, so more opportunities to spread his seed (genes). Girl things breeding with him will make babies capable of living to old age and having a better chance at spreading genes, biologically speaking.
Theories, but pretty good ones if you ask me.
Azzhole gets what he wants and can spread his seed (genes). Girl may not like azzhole, but because he can spread his genes, breeding with him and having an azzhole baby who can further spread genes is a good deal, biologically speaking.
Older man was able to survive and thrive, so longer life span, so more opportunities to spread his seed (genes). Girl things breeding with him will make babies capable of living to old age and having a better chance at spreading genes, biologically speaking.
Theories, but pretty good ones if you ask me.
sodbuster
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Physically, 25...Financially, give me 5 years.... Women, 47 or so....because that was about when I stopped caring about if I had one or not. Before that, sex was important to be a "man"
Rollo Tomassi
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I'll let you know when I get there.
5string
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Right now in my mid 50's.
Have money, nice house and great job. Plus, I have always been social and hung on to some of my looks (debatable).
There are so many "expired" women out there for the taking it's unbelievable. Many much much younger.
Pass the Viagra.
Have money, nice house and great job. Plus, I have always been social and hung on to some of my looks (debatable).
There are so many "expired" women out there for the taking it's unbelievable. Many much much younger.
Pass the Viagra.
5string
Master Don Juan
:crackup:samspade said:
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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Somehow between 10 and 14, dont know why but women loved me both girls my age and older ones.
I was having girls my age writing me love letters and baby sitters and girls and women giving me signals that would flash green light from a girl now.
Not sure about the reason and trust me Im not kidding, I remember even the hot older sister of my friend asking me to show her my d1ck at the pool.
Got my first kiss to one of the most hot girls from the school at 12, she was older than me, the following year I got my first "gf" through an afc love letter wrote to her, this girl also was smoking hot.
Funny is that I didnt know what I was doing, I had no sex drive, I was simply doing what I knew I was supposed to do.
Then high school has been a complete wasted land probably the worst of my life at all, thankfully it finished there after, now its getting better and better from my 20s, actually it seems the peak is restarting although changes in society and technlogy hardly will grant me such conquer so easily.
I was having girls my age writing me love letters and baby sitters and girls and women giving me signals that would flash green light from a girl now.
Not sure about the reason and trust me Im not kidding, I remember even the hot older sister of my friend asking me to show her my d1ck at the pool.
Got my first kiss to one of the most hot girls from the school at 12, she was older than me, the following year I got my first "gf" through an afc love letter wrote to her, this girl also was smoking hot.
Funny is that I didnt know what I was doing, I had no sex drive, I was simply doing what I knew I was supposed to do.
Then high school has been a complete wasted land probably the worst of my life at all, thankfully it finished there after, now its getting better and better from my 20s, actually it seems the peak is restarting although changes in society and technlogy hardly will grant me such conquer so easily.
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I think it's very possible to recreate (or come close to) a previous "prime." Here's why:
In my teens and mid twenties, I had, what I refer to as dumb blonde stage .... ; meaning that I was considered "cool" and not bad looking and really had to exert little to no effort. In retrospect, this made me kind of inexperienced in learning how to play the field.
Late twenties to early thirties, something wasn't happening like before. It's really quite common. College type girls are initially more drawn to those in their age environment (not saying that they can't be had, but, more effort is now required). Women in the late 20's / early 30's age groups are or have just involved themselves in something more serious and are seldom seen or seen with 'mate.' Suddenly the options are not as plentiful.
In a manner - sort of like the smug gal that suddenly can't snap her finger... our 'mojo' sort of takes a decline.
Sure... there are exceptions with men and no doubt that we will probably read follow ups about how successful 'certain members here are' but read through it all. As if half here are "in their prime now." Okay yeah.
The point is, at least for me, I did some reevaluating. What was I now projecting that wasn't reaping as many benefits as before? Younger competition? Truth of the matter is that my experience in life should aced these rookies. It all comes down to self.
For me personally, I hit a low spot when in my thirties, a relationship ended. I also don't think that this is too uncommon either. We lose sight of who we are and the person we once were. Thinks weren't happening, so I decided to find that person that was in my twenties. Also, work on my own 'junk' so it wouldn't reoccur.
Have I reclaimed the numbers from the days of my prime? Not entirely, but I'm closer to that point than I was in my thirties. H3ll, look at Cher or John Travolta. For those of you old enough... think back to the early to mid 80's, would you ever think that either of them could make a come-back? I sure didn't.
It's all about re-inventing yourself.
It works!
In my teens and mid twenties, I had, what I refer to as dumb blonde stage .... ; meaning that I was considered "cool" and not bad looking and really had to exert little to no effort. In retrospect, this made me kind of inexperienced in learning how to play the field.
Late twenties to early thirties, something wasn't happening like before. It's really quite common. College type girls are initially more drawn to those in their age environment (not saying that they can't be had, but, more effort is now required). Women in the late 20's / early 30's age groups are or have just involved themselves in something more serious and are seldom seen or seen with 'mate.' Suddenly the options are not as plentiful.
In a manner - sort of like the smug gal that suddenly can't snap her finger... our 'mojo' sort of takes a decline.
Sure... there are exceptions with men and no doubt that we will probably read follow ups about how successful 'certain members here are' but read through it all. As if half here are "in their prime now." Okay yeah.
The point is, at least for me, I did some reevaluating. What was I now projecting that wasn't reaping as many benefits as before? Younger competition? Truth of the matter is that my experience in life should aced these rookies. It all comes down to self.
For me personally, I hit a low spot when in my thirties, a relationship ended. I also don't think that this is too uncommon either. We lose sight of who we are and the person we once were. Thinks weren't happening, so I decided to find that person that was in my twenties. Also, work on my own 'junk' so it wouldn't reoccur.
Have I reclaimed the numbers from the days of my prime? Not entirely, but I'm closer to that point than I was in my thirties. H3ll, look at Cher or John Travolta. For those of you old enough... think back to the early to mid 80's, would you ever think that either of them could make a come-back? I sure didn't.
It's all about re-inventing yourself.
It works!
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OMG :crackup:Rollo Tomassi said:
backbreaker
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even as a guy i used to think that I mean, i knew my shelf life was longer than women's but still by I mean.. always in the back of my mind, 45-50 years old was time to shut it down somewhat.. in my mind years ago i couldn't fathom how dating would be in my 50's
however that's changed 100%. i see plenty of talent that is in their 40's and divorced, kids out the house and they want some ****. the beauty of this stage seems to be that most of them have accepted that there is no marriage gravy train coming and are content with companionship, the occasional date and some ****. myd ad just got (another) divorce and is back on the prowl with success. this is a man who still has a ****ing beeper **** facebook lol and he's sleeping with girls my age (though not usually). That and you still get to **** 20-30 year olds as well
however that's changed 100%. i see plenty of talent that is in their 40's and divorced, kids out the house and they want some ****. the beauty of this stage seems to be that most of them have accepted that there is no marriage gravy train coming and are content with companionship, the occasional date and some ****. myd ad just got (another) divorce and is back on the prowl with success. this is a man who still has a ****ing beeper **** facebook lol and he's sleeping with girls my age (though not usually). That and you still get to **** 20-30 year olds as well