Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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TO THE:Moderators why do you guys keep deleting my threads??

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My threads are useful I keep making threads because NOBODY answers my question or helps me they spend more time insulting.When I was done registering, I got an e-mail saying"Dear henrydreamx,

Thanks for registering at Don Juan Discussion Forum! We are glad you
have chosen to be a part of our community and we hope you enjoy your
stay.

All the best,
Don Juan Discussion Forum"
But WITH you mods,here justd deleting my threads and some of my posts and banning my accounts all because memebers on here tell YOU guys lies,and you guys believe it.I know this THREAD has nothing to do with women,but still I want some answers, I just made this thread FOR me and the mods to have discussion.I know I should PM you guys but I dont know which moderator is deleting my stuff or bans my accounts im assuming its Vincent but im not sure,well hopefully you guys will respond and wont ***** about stuff and find ANOTHER reason to ban my account or delete more of my threads,thanks for your time ill be on here and always gonna read your guys reason.s
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You continue to defeat yourself by posting such drivel yet you are too blind to see it.
 

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mr_elor said:
Because you keep filling the boards when most people want interesting posts to read.
Interesting??So your saying I should post trollish posts that are fake and should entertain you guys??uh thats just wrong,my posts are real,and if most guys would atleast post advice rather then insults then I would need to make alot more threads.And dude please dont post on this thread,its just for me and the mods to have a dissucion.
 

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Attention memebers please dont post on this thread its just for me the moderators to have a dissucison.You can read but cant post thanks for you time.
 

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mr_elor said:
Actually I think you'll find I can post on here.

Anyway, posting nonsense - however entertaining - about how successful you are (is it's not true) is a waste of everyones time here.

Posts that people like to read are:

Field reports
New techniques/theories
Interesting questions (as in, those that can't be answered by the DJ bible or just plain old common sense)
Inspiring posts
WELL im a f*cken AFC,so I cant be posting field reports or anyother stuff you put in your post.I'm looking for advice on my threads,if I would GET ADVICE not insults,then I wouldn't post all these threads.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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And guys I know you can post here,but I would really like it if you guys didnt post and just let me and the moderators post.Because I feel like there will be an arguememnt between me and some memebers so its better if me and the mods have a dissucsion.
 

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diablo said:
If you feel that you are being treated unfairly by any mod, please raise the issue through appropriate channels. The administrator has the ability to browse through deleted threads and posts to verify that they were correctly deleted. Sounding off in a public forum isn't the most mature way to handle things.
This was posted less then one week ago. I think it addresses your issues.
 

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PRMoon said:
This was posted less then one week ago. I think it addresses your issues.
I send the administrator soo many e-mails but he always tell me to work it out with mods so thats why this thread exists.
 

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ATTENTION TO ALL MEMEBERS:I know you can post here,but I would really like it if you guys didnt post and just let me and the moderators post.Because I feel like there will be an arguememnt between me and some memebers so its better if me and the mods have a dissucsion.
 

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henrydreamx said:
I send the administrator soo many e-mails but he always tell me to work it out with mods so thats why this thread exists.
He wants you to PM the Mods! Their names are clearly listed on every board. Trust me they will get back to you when you get a chance. Don't think Diablo won't close this thread as quickly as the last person who did something like this (I think it was two days ago). Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but this is not going to help your case.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PRMoon said:
He wants you to PM the Mods! Their names are clearly listed on every board. Trust me they will get back to you when you get a chance. Don't think Diablo won't close this thread as quickly as the last person who did something like this (I think it was two days ago). Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but this is not going to help your case.
Here is a reason why IM not PM the mods
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I know I should PM you guys but I dont know which moderator is deleting my stuff or bans my accounts im assuming its Vincent or even diablo but im not sure.
 

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henrydreamx said:
Here is a reason why IM not PM the mods
... Oh my...

Okay. PM the mods. I don't care which one that you PM. Just stop posting things here unless they are relevent questions to the topic of this entire site.
 

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Mr_rogers said:
... Oh my...

Okay. PM the mods. I don't care which one that you PM. Just stop posting things here unless they are relevent questions to the topic of this entire site.
Here is the answer to your question:
henrydreamx said:
THREAD has nothing to do with women,but still I want some answers, I just made this thread FOR me and the mods to have discussion.
 

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henrydreamx said:
Here is the answer to your question:
*twitches*

YOU. CAN'T. DO. THAT.

Do you understand that now? This SITE is about improvement with WOMEN and you post to talk about that, not as a way to get attention from the moderators. If you want to talk to the mods, PM them.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mr_rogers said:
*twitches*

YOU. CAN'T. DO. THAT.

Do you understand that now? This SITE is about improvement with WOMEN and you post to talk about that, not as a way to get attention from the moderators. If you want to talk to the mods, PM them.
Ok you guys are officailty retarted,read my thread carefully on WHY I didnt PM the mods.
 

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So PM every moderator, you twit.
 

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S1NN3R said:
So PM every moderator, you twit.
are you f*cken retarted??OMG how many times do I have to repeat myself

Here is a reason why IM not PM the mods
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I know I should PM you guys but I dont know which moderator is deleting my stuff or bans my accounts im assuming its Vincent or even diablo but im not sure.
 

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I guess I need to put this in very small words so you can wrap your mind around it.

If you SEND a MESSAGE to EVERY MOD, then ALL of them WILL get it, and either the ONE who is deleting your CRAP can RESPOND, or ANY of the OTHERS can respond.

diablo said:
please raise the issue through appropriate channels
In case you are unsure what "APPROPRIATE CHANNELS" means, allow me to decode this wicked foreign language to you. It means "PM the MODS". Can you realy not figure this out on your own? You were specifically told to PM the mods. It cannot get any more clear than that.
 

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S1NN3R said:
I guess I need to put this in very small words so you can wrap your mind around it.

If you SEND a MESSAGE to EVERY MOD, then ALL of them WILL get it, and either the ONE who is deleting your CRAP can RESPOND, or ANY of the OTHERS can respond.


In case you are unsure what "APPROPRIATE CHANNELS" means, allow me to decode this wicked foreign language to you. It means "PM the MODS". Can you realy not figure this out on your own? You were specifically told to PM the mods. It cannot get any more clear than that.
There are about atleast 15 mods on here,and me chatting with 15mods is alot im one f*cken person sending PM messages to 15 mods over over again which will make my private messages full.So im trying to save my PM messages from not being full,so I would rather have a thread to discuss.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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