"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TO The Head in Charge

Gene Simmons

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I was sent to this forum by recommendation and I have received everything but help or suggestions. The members of this forum seem not to have anything better then stir the pot with their ignorance. No, this is not everybody, but the select few I wish not to ever meet outside because it would not be a nice sight. I came here with good intentions but come to find out that is simply irrelevant. What would be the course of action in taking my name off this site, I wish not to have anything to do with this forum again. Any cooperation would be great. Thank You
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mack Of All Trades

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Mods: I am also wondering how to remove one of my screenames on this site. Is there a method of doing this?

Gene, Im sorry about some of the words of the people on this board.

BUT, if you ask the same newbie questions that have been answered 100 times or are in the bible than you have no one to blame for the rude answers but yourself. You also must realize that you are in the real world. Not everyone is gonna agree with you, especially if you throw out false generalizations.You have got to understand that you are not the center of the universe.

Also, youre gonna have to learn that becoming a dj is not easy. There is no magic pill that will make you a ladies man, only courage and hard work.

With that said, you are making a grave mistake of leaving this site...
 
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