"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TO The Head in Charge

Gene Simmons

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I was sent to this forum by recommendation and I have received everything but help or suggestions. The members of this forum seem not to have anything better then stir the pot with their ignorance. No, this is not everybody, but the select few I wish not to ever meet outside because it would not be a nice sight. I came here with good intentions but come to find out that is simply irrelevant. What would be the course of action in taking my name off this site, I wish not to have anything to do with this forum again. Any cooperation would be great. Thank You
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mack Of All Trades

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Mods: I am also wondering how to remove one of my screenames on this site. Is there a method of doing this?

Gene, Im sorry about some of the words of the people on this board.

BUT, if you ask the same newbie questions that have been answered 100 times or are in the bible than you have no one to blame for the rude answers but yourself. You also must realize that you are in the real world. Not everyone is gonna agree with you, especially if you throw out false generalizations.You have got to understand that you are not the center of the universe.

Also, youre gonna have to learn that becoming a dj is not easy. There is no magic pill that will make you a ladies man, only courage and hard work.

With that said, you are making a grave mistake of leaving this site...
 
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