Zapp Brannigan
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This weekend I did some random looking around social media, and saw a lot slvtty s**t posted by females I know. It always surprises me how they'll reveal their true colors online for anyone to see. It got me thinking about how bad the females I know are, and how it's not only them but a good deal of chicks in general. How even the ones who seem descent 99% of the time turn out to have slvtty wild sides. All of that got me thinking about my old oneitius, and how she doesn't seem to behave in such a way.
I began to think maybe I should try to get with her, because by the looks of things I won't meet another female like her. Like in a sea of terrible women she seems like she's the best one, and the rarest breed of female I'll ever encounter.
When thinking about this I ignored every red flag of hers, and why I keep a distance from her. How she has a large flock of orbiters a couple of which have slight game and are actively trying to fvck her, displays narcissistic traits, has an attention seeking side, and manipulates the unskilled orbiters. She's a very good manipulator too. To compare her to someone she's a lot like Nina Myers from 24, seems like a good trustworthy girl until you see their true side, and only then their intentions are clear.
I finally snapped and realized how stupid that is to think that way. To try to make things work, and have blind affection for a girl just because she doesn't SEEM to behave like a total wh0re. I know guys who tried marrying girls for the same reason, ignoring every problem/red flag to desperately try to salvage a relationship, and they both got burned in the end. I now understand why they did it, and sympathize with them more.
To anyone reading this that is blindly feeling affection for a women, ignoring the incompatibility, and red flags, just because she seems like the best female you'll find. STOP. You have these doubts and notice her red flags for a reason, the fact that she exhibits red flags shows she isn't different. She may not be the girl who goes out on the weekend and fVcks every guy at a party, but she's still not right for you.
No one is perfect, and no matter what chick you get with there will be baggage. But said baggage should not be blaring red flags, and when you meet the right chick there won't be any doubts from your end.
Hopefully this post will help someone.
I began to think maybe I should try to get with her, because by the looks of things I won't meet another female like her. Like in a sea of terrible women she seems like she's the best one, and the rarest breed of female I'll ever encounter.
When thinking about this I ignored every red flag of hers, and why I keep a distance from her. How she has a large flock of orbiters a couple of which have slight game and are actively trying to fvck her, displays narcissistic traits, has an attention seeking side, and manipulates the unskilled orbiters. She's a very good manipulator too. To compare her to someone she's a lot like Nina Myers from 24, seems like a good trustworthy girl until you see their true side, and only then their intentions are clear.
I finally snapped and realized how stupid that is to think that way. To try to make things work, and have blind affection for a girl just because she doesn't SEEM to behave like a total wh0re. I know guys who tried marrying girls for the same reason, ignoring every problem/red flag to desperately try to salvage a relationship, and they both got burned in the end. I now understand why they did it, and sympathize with them more.
To anyone reading this that is blindly feeling affection for a women, ignoring the incompatibility, and red flags, just because she seems like the best female you'll find. STOP. You have these doubts and notice her red flags for a reason, the fact that she exhibits red flags shows she isn't different. She may not be the girl who goes out on the weekend and fVcks every guy at a party, but she's still not right for you.
No one is perfect, and no matter what chick you get with there will be baggage. But said baggage should not be blaring red flags, and when you meet the right chick there won't be any doubts from your end.
Hopefully this post will help someone.
