"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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To text or not to text

ebracer05

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This is pretty straight forward. I'm taking out a girl I've known for a while (HB8) monday and don't want to be her friend anymore. I believe I've communicated this effectively enough through our communication which has become increasinly flirtatious and she's playing right back. She's in a very voulnerable place given some things that have been happening in her life and I want to escalate as efficiently as possible (efficiency = speed). During our last conversation, she kept telling me to text her, and I never responded to that. She told me like 3 or 4 times to text her. I've always been fairly aloof and distant from her, so me not texting her wouldn't be anything new. Should I text her? I've been thinking I shouldn't, but wanted to hear what you guys have to say on the issue.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Weather's lookin good for Monday, wear something sexy so you will be too ;) See you at (insert time here)!"

There, killed 2 birds with one stone.
 

Poonani Maker

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I just texted mine, "Sorry about bringing up past gf Have a better week u make mine go better" Don't know if I should have sent that, but she's probably asleep after I'd just fvcked her 2 and a half hours. I hope that what I just sent when I got home is not too supplicative. She said to "call" her throughout the week as we said goodbye this AM. It's a full moon. She asked me what I'm doing tomorrow (today). I'm getting up early to meet with some friends, I say. When a woman asks you what you are doing for the rest of the weekend...idk, she wants something more, or maybe she's just curious. I don't really want her coming over to my place. I've got my stable life, then I've got her (unstable). We fvcked fantastically. Will probably report.
 

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ARrocket said:
"Weather's lookin good for Monday, wear something sexy so you will be too ;) See you at (insert time here)!"

There, killed 2 birds with one stone.
Great stuff!
 
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