"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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To Tease Or Not To Tease

thejuice

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I discovered the effectiveness of teasing by accident. I always heard that teasing will turn her on but i never knew the best way to do it

Here's what works: kiss her fingertips. Slightly let them into your mouth as if youre tasting them and shell go nuts. My girl doesnt like me doing it because she gets wet. Little she knows that while i play innocent to her remarks, ill be getting her ready for later

Edit: Better as subtle tease in public

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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iv never tried that before, when i read the post title i thought it would be about verbal teasing. I must say your idea/example is deffintly a good one.
 

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LOL...I didnt know how well it worked until she told me
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Sooooooo, where exactly were her fingers before you put them into your mouth? :p
 

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Just holding hands. I brought them up and instead of giving them a kiss, i just nibble on the tip...no tongue. Haha, i still laugh at this...she told me to stop because she was getting wet
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Sooooooo, where exactly were her fingers before you put them into your mouth? :p
touche'

:p
 
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