"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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To strong or to shy?

SharinganUser

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Some of my friends say I come on to strong, and others say that I am to shy. I don't think it's either, I think its because I feel like a worthless sack of crap, and that all women hate me. It all seems so pointless now because there are so many things stacked against me, a language barrier and I am moving back to Canada in a month.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SharinganUser said:
I think its because I feel like a worthless sack of crap, and that all women hate me.
right here is the problem. you perceive yourself very negatively.

can you look in the mirror and say you are happy with yourself? if not, maybe you have to work on your inner game a bit more.

I look in the mirror everyday with a smile. that to me is a great building block on improving ones self.
 

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Dude I thought like that before and I actually started meditating and ****. Work on your inner game. I know this might sound weird but sit down turn the light off put on some meditation music and say to your self "I AM THE PRIZE". I did this straight for 10 days until it is burned into my head. You have to power to change the way you see yourself in a second. If you change the way you see yourself others will notice the change. Trust me dude it works
 
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