"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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To stop all the myths and rumours

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Ive seen to many posts on this site and others about "ugly" guys dating hot women!
You see the thing is women do not get fixated on looks alone. They need more than just good looks from guys to seduce them, be it humour, confidence and deep rapport...
For a guy to be accepted by hot women in NORMAL circumstances all he needs to look like is a "NORMAL" guy! That is: no obviously huge beer gut showing, no defective face with one tooth or bloodshot eyes, no crooked arms/legs/feet... you see the picture.

A guy with a tight game and average looks will outgame a pretty boy or a body builder in the long run.

Looks get you an audition but if thats all you got going for you then your no good.
This is why peacoking goes hand in hand with sarging.

If you think your not getting laid cos your short/too tall/lanky/slightly fat/etc then stop dribbling this BS! Its crap and you know it. The only reason why your not getting laid or if you are but not consistently is because you lack skill and do something like a dumbass everytime you sarge or when you dont sarge. Find out what it is and change it.


Fact is that this site harbours a lot of AFC advice, not sure why mods dont pick up on it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Looks will get you far! It all depends on the situation, at a club looks and confidence will dominate most other stuff but ofcourse a quick wit is important incase you meet someone else with game.

But yes people worry too much about if they are ugly or not. I say just do your best to look as good as you can (dress sharp, get a facial, get a nice haircut etc etc) and work on your selfconfidence and game and understand that you are who you are.
 
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PUA,

Do I give AFC advice?:( I know that's an AFC question.

Actually this topic came up a few times in the last few months - the general advice given is what you stated here.
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
PUA,

Do I give AFC advice?:( I know that's an AFC question.

Actually this topic came up a few times in the last few months - the general advice given is what you stated here.
Im not talking about regular posters, although some do post very much AFC advice. You just get carried away with the whole "online" sarging... sure it can help but dont make it your priority above everything else, lookin at your thread about personals it seems thats all you care about.

The AFC advice I found misguiding is on this site itself, not the forum.
 
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I just tried online personals for the first time in 7 years for one month only, I am not expecting much at all - I know the odds are very low, especially for what I'm looking for.

I have two 'real ife' sarging field reports in 2 days posted on my thread...maybe if you and Francisco quit feuding, you would have had a chance to read them!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
I just tried online personals for the first time in 7 years for one month only, I am not expecting much at all - I know the odds are very low, especially for what I'm looking for.

I have two 'real ife' sarging field reports in 2 days posted on my thread...maybe if you and Francisco quit feuding, you would have had a chance to read them!
You're right PL, you'd think that PG started the thread. I'm enjoying your FRs though, it's bringing back memories when I was on campus. It's a bit harder when you aren't taking classes though.
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
I just tried online personals for the first time in 7 years for one month only, I am not expecting much at all - I know the odds are very low, especially for what I'm looking for.

I have two 'real ife' sarging field reports in 2 days posted on my thread...maybe if you and Francisco quit feuding, you would have had a chance to read them!
Tell us how your "online" experience goes anyway.. afterall you did invest time and effort into it...

As for the feud b/w me and the other dude i think its over! I got better stuff to do! :D
 
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I joinrd because there was one person that I wanted to make contact with - I'll post my results on the thread shortly.

I spend $20 at a club and I see no prospects worthy of my pursuit. I spent hundreds of dollars to no avail! Whats 20 dollars for a month - a pittance compared to what I spend chasing girls at a club in 2 hours!
 
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