“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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To steal a woman

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So ..quality people are rare....

I say...you're over qualified and steal that ****.

You're better. You're better.. You're better
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It's a good way for karma to come kick you in the ass
 

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I've tried to do this before in my AFC days and it never works, creates drama, and is just generally a bad thing to do.

If a girl likes you she will hit you up down the road when she breaks up with the dude anyway. I have experienced this a couple of times now. You just back off and leave it alone then out the blue you get a "we should hang out I'm single now"

Never try steal a girl it's afc
 

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Yea dude stealing someone's gf is pretty weak. There are plenty of girls out there that are awesome and single. Focus on them.
 

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I have and will steal bases, the important thing for me is that you have to do it a way where you don't invest a lot of resources into it, like having a pot on the backburner for instance. As long as you keep your investment low, don't text endlessly and develop other women I don't see a problem with it.
 

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I have and will steal bases, the important thing for me is that you have to do it a way where you don't invest a lot of resources into it, like having a pot on the backburner for instance. As long as you keep your investment low, don't text endlessly and develop other women I don't see a problem with it.
That's not really stealing though that's more being an option which she then picks.
 

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My dad always said "If you don't want competition, date a fat girl".

All men must steal their women from other men.

This is even more common now because Millennials are so broke they usually must have roommates.

Every girl over a 6/10 has ten guys lined up to bang her. As I've noted, MANY men here are living in this fantasy land pretending they're going to meet a hot babe who is totally single and immediately commits to him. They do this by strictly applying basic rules like "girls with high interest don't cancel dates" and "if she has high interest she will do ANYTHING". They must be dreaming of a lonely fat girl coming their way.

It is painfully obvious that these people have never seduced a young beauty and don't understand the rat race aspect of percolating up to the top of her list, which takes MONTHS not hours.
 

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true, which is why its so important to avoid committing to exclusivity for at least 2-3 months.
I haven't had the luxury of that problem. That's a good problem to have if she is asking you. Typically it will take 3 months before she asks you, in which case the man should resist (they go crazy when this happens - I never had a woman blow up my phone like one girl 2 years back who wanted to get engaged). The closest I came was (after 18 months) I said "Ok, maybe we'll get engaged someday".
 

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It's a lot easier to get those you don't have to steal, so what idiot would even want to do it? Ego gratification? Like "I got the taken girl, look how attractive/awesome/alpha I am".

Even if a particular woman is easy to steal it says a lot about her, and it ain't positive.
 

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I have a date with a girl in a 5 year LTR next week.

She is miserable from her bf, she told me. She hates her life and she feels like shes bored of him and that he doesn't support her in the right way. (I think he can't make her pvssy wet) Well that won't be a problem for me.

You can draw girls of their bf if they start about it.

She's studying for her PHD. I would like to have a plate that's f8cking smart, and she is highly educated, can't let that slipp away.
 

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there's nothing wrong with stealing someone's girl if it isn't on purpose, it happens to you all the time (whenever a girl goes cold for no reason another guy is usually the cause), but if you're intentionally looking to fvck other guys over for the pvssy of some random slvt you're an a-hole who needs to start using their big head instead of the little one.

personally i don't want a bad reputation or a black eye so i can bang some cheap slvt who cheats on her bf you know? i can bang cheap slvts who don't affect my rep or health.

however if she's not exclusive with anyone she's always fair game unless she's dating your friend or something.
 

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It's a lot easier to get those you don't have to steal, so what idiot would even want to do it?
You're right. What idiot wouldn't just settle for a fat, old, single woman? Why compete for a tight, young, promiscuous supermodel?

On the other hand, if you are a dominant male you will be confident she will eventually prefer you.
 

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I am a bit torn on this one...

Married? I likely wouldn't touch because I would HATE to be that guy. I try to imagine family and friends that would be wrecked by these situations.
BF? If she gives you her number and is willing to go on a date, it means the relationship is likely over anyways
Dating? no restrictions here...
 

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Hot women don't exist in a vacuum. They have sex whenever they want. They are not virgins waiting to be exclusive with you.
 

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You're right. What idiot wouldn't just settle for a fat, old, single woman? Why compete for a tight, young, promiscuous supermodel?

On the other hand, if you are a dominant male you will be confident she will eventually prefer you.
We're not talking about competition, we're talking about stealing. Which means she's exclusive with someone else.

Single women aren't necessarily fat and/or old. There's plenty of tight, young and good looking women who's single. So again, what fvcking idiot would go through all the hassle of stealing one when there's plenty of single ones?
 

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We're not talking about competition, we're talking about stealing. Which means she's exclusive with someone else.
You just contradicted yourself. If she is exclusive with someone else, you couldn't steal her to begin with. You're talking about being a pvssy and letting a lesser man procreate with your woman. You're talking about r
 

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We're not talking about competition, we're talking about stealing. Which means she's exclusive with someone else.
You just contradicted yourself. If she is exclusive with someone else, you couldn't steal her to begin with. You're talking about being a pvssy and letting a lesser man procreate with your woman.

There's plenty of tight, young and good looking women who's single. So again, what fvcking idiot would go through all the hassle of stealing one when there's plenty of single ones?
There are plenty of hot, single women who can't get any? With 1000 Facebook friends and smart phones? You wish.

When you resort to name calling you know you lost the argument. Though I really wish you'd tell me that to my face on my next date so I could make you cry in front of her, without spilling my Pinot Gris.
 

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You just contradicted yourself. If she is exclusive with someone else, you couldn't steal her to begin with. You're talking about being a pvssy and letting a lesser man procreate with your woman.
If she is exclusive, meaning she has made a commitment to not fvck someone else then gaming her is stealing her. That is exactly when it would be to steal a woman.

If she's single but fvck around with several guys without commitment of exclusivity, it cannot be called stealing. It would just be competition, fair game.
There are plenty of hot, single women who can't get any? With 1000 Facebook friends and smart phones? You wish.

When you resort to name calling you know you lost the argument. Though I really wish you'd tell me that to my face on my next date so I could make you cry in front of her, without spilling my Pinot Gris.
I know those women have 1000+ Facebook friends and smart phones, but they can still be single meaning they have not committed to one man. Of course they have sex, but nobody has to be in a committed relationship to get it.

I never said "who can't get any", don't put words in my mouth. You and all those hot women can fvck thousands and still be single.

Fvcking straw man arguments, when you resort to making sh!t up you know you lost the argument.
Could you also please point out exactly where I name called you?

So once again, why the hassle with stealing a woman when there's so many who are single, young, hot and horny?
 
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They can still be single meaning they have not committed to one man. Of course they have sex, but nobody has to be in a committed relationship to get it.
I agree, but I thought the general consensus here was, once she has sex, if she doesn't automatically commit, then if she has sex with anyone else ever she cheated?

"His rival it seems
Had broken his dreams
By stealing the girl of his fancy
Her name was McGill
And she called herself Lil
But everyone knew her as Nancy"

Paul McCartney, 1968
 
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