"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Perseverance... Thx for your input, you always have good advice to give.
 
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Gdupm6 said:
Perseverance... Thx for your input, you always have good advice to give.
Thank you very much, I'm delighted that I was able to help your situation in some way. I know how you're feeling though as I am going through no contact with a girl that I liked a lot, it's been nearly three months and I still think about her sometimes. I have been through no contact before, so it is a tried and tested method. It works. I think by breaking no contact you show someone that you are weak and that you cannot move on in life. Your ex girlfriend like the girl I went no contact with aren't thinking about us bro! They're out there enjoying themselves, partying, living life and loving it. That's incentive enough to do the same and move on.

Funnily enough when I split up with a girl three years ago, I went no contact with her and in August this year she got back in contact with me. She made some small chit chat, I wrapped it up by wishing her the best in life and that's was that. I don't believe in second chances or ex's getting back together. My argument is that if you were meant to be you wouldn't have split up in the first place.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I absolutely agree with everything you said. I used to believe in 2nd chances and always gave it to them, but I realized that there really isn't no point..also depends on how severe she messed up... We just have to focus on how to better ourselves, be successful and work out.

Dmedfisik thx for your help as well.
 
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