You can still be her friend without being one of her girlfriends. Just be cool but realize that she has probably already made up her mind about you. However, there is no point in being bitter about the whole thing. In my opinion, that just takes a lot of extra energy that could be put into better use like approaching and macking on other girls (this girl who rejected you should not be the be all, end all). I say keep in touch regularly but don't initiate any outings or go out of your way for her.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
To stay a friend, or...?
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