Improver21
Don Juan
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Ok. So a girl that displays initial interest in you, says that she likes you, dates you for a few weeks then says she wants to just be friends as she doesnt like you enough.
Do you make an effort to try to be her friend, knowing that you still have feelings for her?
OR.
Do you keep in touch irregulary, just call her to see how she has been but other than this do not initiate any outings?
OR.
Do you just move on. She chose to be out of your life, so therefore she doesnt deserve you.
Although i know the general consensus would be to move on, forget her, it does take time. And the truth is, i'd like a second shot at this whether it be in the near or distant future. So I'd like to be in a position to help maximise this chance, or am i being AFC to think this way? Is this a lost cause?
**Also. I've come to believe personally that if you try in the right ways, within reasonable bounds, there really isnt a girl that u cant 'get' in a relationship. What are your ideas on this?
Tanks in Advance.
Do you make an effort to try to be her friend, knowing that you still have feelings for her?
OR.
Do you keep in touch irregulary, just call her to see how she has been but other than this do not initiate any outings?
OR.
Do you just move on. She chose to be out of your life, so therefore she doesnt deserve you.
Although i know the general consensus would be to move on, forget her, it does take time. And the truth is, i'd like a second shot at this whether it be in the near or distant future. So I'd like to be in a position to help maximise this chance, or am i being AFC to think this way? Is this a lost cause?
**Also. I've come to believe personally that if you try in the right ways, within reasonable bounds, there really isnt a girl that u cant 'get' in a relationship. What are your ideas on this?
Tanks in Advance.