You can still be her friend without being one of her girlfriends. Just be cool but realize that she has probably already made up her mind about you. However, there is no point in being bitter about the whole thing. In my opinion, that just takes a lot of extra energy that could be put into better use like approaching and macking on other girls (this girl who rejected you should not be the be all, end all). I say keep in touch regularly but don't initiate any outings or go out of your way for her.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
To stay a friend, or...?
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