"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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To "SQUEEZE" the chest or not

FrankWank

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Should i be squeezing the chest muscle at the top during my pressing movements? Flex the pecs basically? I currently dont, and this is probably why my chest is lagging. I do flex on fly or cable movements but not pressing.

If squeezing is the answer, i guess i'll be dropping to lower weight.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MrFitness880

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dont worry about flexing your pecs at the top of the movement. thats hardly the key to strong pecs.

stick to focusing on the heavy pressing movements, keep the the strength gains coming and eat big.
 

Heizen

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Full contraction= more effective workout.

It can really be a preference. It all relates to total time the muscle is contracted and the stress it goes through. If you do that on top of heavier weights, you will get better results.

Squeezing at the top of a rep for bicep curls will give you peakier biceps.

Overall though, if your chest is lagging it is something else; not squeezing at the top of the rep is not why your chest is lagging.
 

dastal

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Happens to me too. Dunno, but doing the flys seems to be a more intense exercise than pressing.
 

thefonz

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ya but flys tend to work my shoulders more, and i wanna do shoulders on shoulder day. What you could do if your chest is lagging is get on the decline bench and do some heavy weight (anything you can do 8-10 of) and then havesome light weights like 20-30 lb dumbells on the side and do about 15 to 25 of those. there is no reason to complain about your chest size if you do supersets, thats all i have to say.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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