"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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To smile or not to smile

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This actually a very serious topic. ANd I'm not sure how extensively this has been covered.

Here is what I have found.

Shy girls - soft eye contact followed by smile, or they get too nervous.

Hotter girls - Firm, not psycho eye contact, no smile until she smiles.

Here's why

Hot girls get smiled at all day long, and fear returning smiles will send the wrong message. If you smile first, you are giving her an opportunity to reject you by looking away, and or not smiling.

If she doesnt smile at you and looks away, you confirm she is probably not interested.

Its good to be smiling in general, but once you make eye contact, let your energy settle, and allow some space for you to feel each others vibe. Then when she smiles, return with an "I know exactly what to do with you smirk."

It works for me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hot babes may get smiled at all day but if the dude whom they are strongly attracted to smiles at them they will definately smile back.
If you want to smile then go ahead and do it, I wouldn't even worry about this, the more things that you worry about the less confident and bold you become, if you want to do something just do it, don't live your life to impress hot babes, become the type of dude who they themselves want to impress.
 

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All I can say is try the eye contact experiment and see what kind of results you get. It's really interesting.
 

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Dongfu, fastseduction.com does agree with your smiling strategy. For me, tho, lately I've just said **** it, and I now smile at everyone. In the end, how you handle a random chick walking by you hardly amounts to anything one way or the other.
 

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Obsidian said:
Dongfu, fastseduction.com does agree with your smiling strategy. For me, tho, lately I've just said **** it, and I now smile at everyone. In the end, how you handle a random chick walking by you hardly amounts to anything one way or the other.
For sure, I dont really care one way or another. 9 times out of 10 I smile just because. But when I see a really good looking girl, I like to not smile sometimes just to see how she reacts. Almost always I get her to smile that way, then I know for sure I am invited to talk to her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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