"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TO SHAVE HER OR NOT?

Scaramouche

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Dear All,
Have found a new plate with an adventurous streak,she is from Mexico a totally new experience for me...Tell Donald Trump,I would like to build a wall to keep Girls like her in LOL...She wanted to go the full Monty and shave everything off,but I prevailed and gave her a tasteful Airstrip...Forgetting our Morality Police,has anyone any experience or thoughts on this?
To me a Lady will always appear less attractive completely naked than when wearing a few skimpy nothings provocatively draped,the imagination is always more creative than the reality....
Certainly there is convincing evidence that the full shave is cleaner,perhaps even feels better,but to me it seems so cold and clinical.Whilst certainly not advocating the wild and wooly Sherwood Forest look,I promise you,a carefully manicured Airstrip looks most alluring.....
A Womans hair to her head is its crowning glory...So why neglect her nether parts?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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oOh Nasty

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I almost forgot what a purely shaved vag looks like up close o_O.

Spanish girls are kind of hairy from what I remember. Don't shave it all off like you said. There's something alluring about the fur. I'd say keep it and have fun with it until you get tired of it and then reduce as necessary to your liking.
 

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I don't mind if there's a small bit of growth from not having time to shave or trim, but a full blown bush where piss, cvm and toilet paper can get caught up is nasty. I generally don't look at the vaginal area since I'm either too busy fvcking it or burying my face in my meal, so a landing strip would be irrelevant. Toss a cute pair of panties on her for me to rip off, and I'm happy.
 

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The lighter the skin, the finer the hair, the softer it feels. I knew a guy from Georgia who said construction workers there used the expression 'RCH' as a metaphor for fine....because a red cvnt hair is the finest of all cvnt hairs.
 

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I've a 35yo HB8 from Spain flying in to meet me for the weekend
*will verify*
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Augustus_McCrae

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I like it shaved or a landing strip, particularly if she has a pretty pvssy.

-Augustus-
 

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LOL...

Sorry boyos but I cant second this motion. A chick should be hairless besides her eye brows/eyelashes and the hair on the top of her head!

Ill leave the fur to all of you bushmasters our there! :D
 

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Totally a personal preference thing, but I'm a "bushmaster" myself. I don't really know why, it's just so much more compelling than a bald mound. A real female needs some fur down there.

And by "fur" I mean something groomed and hedged; not some unruly gypsy-fetish thicket that could trap a boar.

Guys today are just raised on bald pvssies. It's all we see in porn, and every woman under 40 shaves it all because they think that's what we want to see.
 

Augustus_McCrae

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Colossus,

"Unruly gypsy-fetish thicket that could trap a boar". Dude, that is freaking hilarious.

I saw some of those in the seventies...

-Augustus-
 

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I like some hair left so I can pull one out and floss with it after I eat.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I am pushing through my shyness, I am going to ask, because if not here, it won't happen anywhere. Cringing, here goes...

As a real red head, who is just as red downstairs as upstairs, I am wondering do men's preferences change at all or do they stay the same with red hair down there?

In a committed relationship, do men appreciate if a woman asks him his preference for her down there and then happily accommodates, or would a man prefer not to be asked and she just do as she pleases (in line with comments above), while insuring she's clean and tidy for him.

I had a girl that had a little fuzz on her upper lip and I told her to wax it. Her reply, "how about if I bleach it?". I explained to her that it's not the color that annoys me, it's the hair itself.

For the second part, I think most men will tell you what they like just like I did with the above girl. No need for you to be shy about it, LiveYourDream. It's just part of life.
 

Augustus_McCrae

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Liveyourdream,

A woman definitely makes points if she asks. Symbolically, it's a way for her to demonstrate that she wants to please her man.

And in your case, if you would care to provide pictorial evidence, this man would be more than happy to provide his opinion. ;-)

-Augustus-
 

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I am pushing through my shyness, I am going to ask, because if not here, it won't happen anywhere. Cringing, here goes...

As a real red head, who is just as red downstairs as upstairs, I am wondering do men's preferences change at all or do they stay the same with red hair down there?

In a committed relationship, do men appreciate if a woman asks him his preference for her down there and then happily accommodates, or would a man prefer not to be asked and she just do as she pleases (in line with comments above), while insuring she's clean and tidy for him.
I totally appreciate it if a woman asks my preference and then happily accommodates. That earns HUGE points with me.

By the way, I'll weigh in the discussion that I like a bush that is nicely trimmed around the edges but natural along the top line.

Ladies, get to work and report to me via PM.
 

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In a committed relationship, do men appreciate if a woman asks him his preference for her down there and then happily accommodates, or would a man prefer not to be asked and she just do as she pleases (in line with comments above), while insuring she's clean and tidy for him.
My paramour had never shaved until meeting me.... A few months into the relationship she called me in while she was bathing and playfully asked me if I had a preference between some bush or shaved.....I told or her I liked it shaved and suggested she give it a try.... She smiled and shaved right then and there.... I appreciated that she wanted to please me...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm ok with shaved, trimmed, whatever. As long as it isn't 4" long sticking out.....:-(
 

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I suggest that you try a different style every week and post photos for us to vote on.

Are you game for that? ;)
 

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I am pushing through my shyness, I am going to ask, because if not here, it won't happen anywhere. Cringing, here goes...

As a real red head, who is just as red downstairs as upstairs, I am wondering do men's preferences change at all or do they stay the same with red hair down there?

In a committed relationship, do men appreciate if a woman asks him his preference for her down there and then happily accommodates, or would a man prefer not to be asked and she just do as she pleases (in line with comments above), while insuring she's clean and tidy for him.
Having recently been with an unshaved redhead, I was really surprised at how nice it was. Didn't mind at all. That being said it wasn't alot of hair, and it was very fine. Most other women probably couldn't pull it off ;)
 

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Ask away. You will get answers i am sure of it. As for to shave or not do what ever you are most comfortable doing. It's your body
 

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That is quite an offer. I get it would be fun. I'm too shy to do that publicly.

Speaking of shy, I have some questions for men about sex that I would really appreciate feedback on. I've been shy to ask them as they are really personal. I have held back completely as I am not sure if questions about sex and men's preferences, coming from a woman, are actually welcome and/or appropriate on SS. I have several questions that I'd really appreciate multiple men's feedback on. If SS isn't the place, I understand, and would rather know that upfront. Thoughts please.
I tried, guys. ;)

I was just kidding, LYD.

Threads directly about sex need to go in Anything Else per forum rules.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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