Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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1. maxiumum achievement- brian tracy
2. goals- brian tracy
3. the laws of success-napoleon hill.
4. the power of your sub-conscience mind-dr.murphy.
5. the secret of the ages-robert collier
i never could get into anything by anthony robbins. but i hear great things from readers who finished his books.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
all great books mention.
here's a few:
As a Man Thinketh- James Allen
Success Through a Positive Mental Attitude- Napoleon Hill and W. Clement Stone
The Alchemist- Paulo Coelho
Siddhartha- Herman Hesse
Tao Te Ching- Lao Tzu
anything by Ralph Waldo Emerson, Aristotle, Plato, Marcus Aurelius.
The Fountainhead- Ayn Rand
The Lord of the Rings (it is one of my goals to read it!)
biographies on Theodore Roosevelt and Abraham Lincoln
Ben Franklin's autobiography
I like Ernest Hemingway. He lived an interesting life. Served in the ambulance corps during the war, lived in Paris, got all the ladies, trying to find and destroy Nazi u-boats, hunting in Africa and exotic places, fishing, it's too bad he put the bullet into his head cabbage
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**The New York Times Essential Library: Opera: A Critic's Guide to the 100 Most Important Works and the Best Recordings (The New York Times Essential Library) (Paperback) - Tommasini
**Ultimate Hotel Design (Hardcover) - Cuito
The New Penguin Russian Course - Brown
English-Russian Dictionary - Katzner
Russia As It Is: Transformation of a Lose/Lose Society - Maly
Koran
The Art of Happiness - Dalai Lama
The Orthodox Study Bible
The New Sotheby's Wine Encyclopedia, Fourth Edition - Stevenson
The Annotated Lolita: Revised and Updated (Vintage) - Vladimir Nabokov and Alfred Appel Jr.
The Collected Tales of Nikolai Gogol (Vintage Classics) - Gogol
The Brothers Karamazov (Paperback) - Dostoevsky
Pleasant Hell Paperback - John Dolan
HOPE YOU LIKE :flowers:
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i was looking for that at the library. heard about it in a million little pieces.Bro said:
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Here's the results from one search, sort through them and then try doing your own searches:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=137866
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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