"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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AARRGGGHH!!!!

Okay...ran into her today. She's been home most nights, but as it was fairly unanimous NOT to knock on her door and such, I just kicked back.

It's been maybe 6 days or so since I saw her last...and FINALLY the opportunity to ask her out was upon me...

Except for one thing...

SHE WAS WITH THAT DUDE AGAIN!

I was waiting in the lobby for the elevator going up (she knew as I just came in with my dog), and she was going down. For whatever reason, the elevator opened on my floor, instead of passing by to the floor below (where she was going). So I see her with this dude, she looks at me and smiles and said they were going down. Normally I would have waited for it to come up the one floor, but she invited me in. So...I walk in and she immediatly smiles, says, "hi", and she starts telling me what she is doing today...

"going out shopping...again... (she went last Sunday as well)...THEN I'm going to come back home and have my Corn Beef and Hash!!" (she is playful and fun while saying this).

I smile and say..."coooooool"...and as her and I chat for the few seconds we are on the elevator, I'm TOTALLY ignoring this dude who she is with. He did not even enter into convo or say anything himself.

As she exits, I ask her what she she is going to buy me...she smiles and starts laughing. Then says, "bye".

I TOTALLY FROZE and COULD NOT GET ANYWHERE WITH HER, as I am NOT used to hitting up a chick when she has another guy around. There was also really was not time to hang and chat either.

I know the next time I see her (alone), I'm going to ask for a date anyway regardless (need the practice)...but feel REAALLLLY stupid here as I am trying to figure out who this dude is...

Am I over-reacting?
 
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