To my hypocritical haters on PUAHate

[BettorOffSingle]

They complain that someone who criticizes them censors them on his blog, where they can't respond, yet they do the same to ME, having banned me from a site they now cowardly ambush me on. As they are quoting my writing, I could just file DMCA notices to get them to stop, but people are wising up to what "Important enough to hate" means.

I don't bother reading their posts, but the headers suggest they lump me in with all the ripoff gurus they trash. I find that amusing, like women who say "all men are scum" just because THEY chose the wrong ones, as if no man could ever figure out women enough to help others.

I'll say it again: I make my living AT THE RACETRACK. When men are stupid in the "community," all you get are arguments, but when they are stupid at the track, I can take their money by force, since race results are an objective reality which cannot be ignored. That I do NOT earn my living as a "guru" (I'm an AUTHOR and PUBLISHER anyway, not a "guru") means I am free to share ALL my knowledge, FREELY, and do so. BOS (my book) actually serves as useful marketing for my other books, including ones on chess (I'm USCF 2000 peak), weight loss, and "office game," in addition to PAP, my horseplaying method, for which I also give out free sheets to prove to the public I can win, and to put money in the pockets of my customers so they can use it to buy my premium products.

NO level of proof will ever satisfy these men, so I don't even bother trying. I just put what I know about women out there, FREE, for any man SMART enough to realize it'll help him moer than even a 10k bootcamp. BOS was released on the SAME DAY as Mystery's book of January 2010, so people who want to compare our writing, knowing neither of us could have seen the other's work, is free to make the comparison.

I post this just because I think it's lame for people on a site to attack me when I cannot defend myself. That's just cowardly.

 

[Iceberg]

As a fellow Philadelphian, I'd love to see you do well, sell lots of...whatever you sell...and make lots of money. But man, you're pushing way too hard. Every damn post is about some book or some site or blah blah blah. If your product is good, you don't have to force feed it to everyone.

I don't even know what the f**k you're whining about. Some strangers on the internet are insulting you? F**k them.

 

[Desdinova]

The essence of a Don Juan is to live life well.

Bytching about other PUA's opinions about you isn't going to accomplish anything. If you don't like what they're saying, don't read it and just keep doing your thing.

Last time I looked, PUAhate is just a site full of people who think that modern seduction is nonsense, so why are you dwelling on this? What you're doing is identical to spray-painting "Ford Sucks" on a Toyota dealership.

 

[Jariel]

I agree with the other posters.

Plus, if you're losing your cool and making a drama over something so trivial, it doesn't portray you as a particularly great role model to learn from. Dare I say it, you appear needy and desperate, and that's just to us guys.

 

[BettorOffSingle]

I agree with the other posters.

Plus, if you're losing your cool and making a drama over something so trivial, it doesn't portray you as a particularly great role model to learn from. Dare I say it, you appear needy and desperate, and that's just to us guys.

My term for attitudes like yours is CONSUMER NARCISSISM.

Here's an idea: don't cry out for advice and then attack anyone who shows up to provide it. Without referencing my books, I'd either be posting stuff people do not understand, posting the same stuff over and over, and my posts would be way too long and repetitive. That's the point of writing them in the first place. As for how I promote my work, I'm looking more to television for that, now that 30 million people know what I do.

Well you should show me by going and getting advice that ill get you a psycho 7 bar slut instead of a 9.5. Like I care? You think I don't understand PASSIVE-AGGRESSIVE marketing? As I said above, the men in the "community" make themselves IMPOSSIBLE to help. They all but say CON ME, since they're looking for "posers" who don't speak their mind, but who instead speak whatever will convince readers like YOU to part with cash.

I posted the above specifically to address a site built on HATING anything they call a "guru." They don't let me defend myself on that site but continue to bash me there. The post was for THEM, not anyone else. Once again: this is NOT my primary source of income, thanks largely to numerous outfits STEALING my work and making millions from it. Now maybe YOU consider this no problem, but it's not YOU they ripped off, is it?

The only flaw I see here are men judging me emotionally rather than on the quality (or lack thereof) of my advice. You guys are like power-drunk chicks who have "choosing power" over who to believe, and become almost narcissistic. Maybe YOU TWO post objections, but 50 others who view what I write might find it useful; my PM box sure says they do. What YOU seem to want is for anyone to BOW DOWN before they can seek your approval, except I never sought that or anyone else's. This is supposed to be an ADVICE board. It's set up as one. I come here, give FREE advice, often better than what they'd pay THOUSANDS for elsewhere, and for my time I get censored, insluted, defamed (on other sites), and told I should engage in passive-aggressive marketing, lest I appear too "needy."

Any man who is SO dumb that they would take that tone with me has just explained to me why their women are inferior. I picture you talking to a chick the way you are talking to me and can see the carnage that is your love life right in front of my eyes.

Like I said, at the track, if other men are stupid or judge me emotionally, I just take their money by betting superior horses. Here, all we do is argue, and evenif I take your women quietly, her demand for discretion makes it difficult to brag about. At the track, I can just give out winning horses before the races enough to convince anyone I can "pull" money there.

So I say if you don't like what I write, DO NOT READ IT. If you want to go get yourself a psycho 7 bar slut instead of a 9.9 "super elitek," knock yourself out. If you want to spend 5k or whatever on some "guru" who did your little monkey dance, again knowck yourself out. It's YOUR love life at stake, not mine. I'm 44 years old and had a nice 25-30 year run before my looks went south. I am NOW experiencing the difficulties many men who post here go through their ENTIRE LIVES, and have a perspective that can only come with seeing the women from my prime having aged a full quarter-century or longer. Some 20 year-old guy isn't going to know that about his women until 2030 or beyond.

 

[Desdinova]

You're incredibly knowledgeable in the field of women. Why you're choosing to attack Jariel and people who don't belong to this site is beyond me. There are many people here who not only learn from those who are knowledgeable, but learn from those who set a good example. The fact that you need to create these bitter posts sets a poor example to those who are trying to eliminate bitterness from their own lives.

The only flaw I see here are men judging me emotionally rather than on the quality (or lack thereof) of my advice.

I've read your books, followed the advice, and succeeded with women. Unfortunately, you're missing one key element to turn yourself from a good seducer to a respectable don juan: happiness. Your bitter posts leave a foul taste in the mouths of anyone who reads them.

I posted the above specifically to address a site built on HATING anything they call a "guru." They don't let me defend myself on that site but continue to bash me there. The post was for THEM, not anyone else.

There is absolutely no purpose in posting your angry rantings here for us to see. The majority of the membership here is going to see your negative posts and judge you accordingly. This message forum was NOT designed for you to defend yourself, it was designed for learning how to improve one's life which includes learning how to interact with women.

The respect I have for you and your writings is quickly diminishing. If I'm going to turn into a bitter old man like yourself, I won't be recommending your reading material to others.

 

[Solomon]

Why post this here why not go to puahate and respond to the "haters" on there?

Edit: I just noticed that you said they banned you, with your posts and rants it doesn't surprise me, you seem to have a "chip" on your shoulder man, take a deep breath let it go bro!

 

[Iceberg]

Why post this here why not go to puahate and respond to the "haters" on there?

Edit: I just noticed that you said they banned you, with your posts and rants it doesn't surprise me, you seem to have a "chip" on your shoulder man, take a deep breath let it go bro!

Yeah. What this guy says.

Take all that weird rage and put it to some positive use. Ranting about internet people is a fruitless endeavor.