"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Explain how this happens?

- So a guy on a random site named "SoSuave", with a random name of Poon Master, makes a thread about a chick named Sarah based on a relationship they had one time in a random part of Missouri. Sarah just randomly gets on the internet one day, randomly runs across "SoSuave", then randomly sees the Poon Master post, then randomly associates the Poon Master post with her "real life" situation with a guy named Derrick? She then randomly puts it together that Poon Master is Derrick?

- I have seen FAR WORSE shyt posted on Facebook than I have seen posted on here.

- If a guy doesn't want to put a pic of himself and a CHICK he's dated in his thumbnail, fine. But how about a dedicated section of the forum where people post their pics using a PhotoBucket link which CAN'T be traced? So when you have guys get up calling themselves the Poon Lord, saying everybody else is a beta fag.got who disagrees with his theories and how he's so ALPHA....he would actually have some sort of proof of how ALPHA he has been lately based on the lifestyle he's living?

These arguments of a guy is going to lose his job, lose his girl, lose his life, etc., etc.,.....because he made a damn thread on "Sosuave", is just ridiculous lol. Look under the surface of the argument at the substance of it, it makes no sense.
It's happened so many times before. We gets requests almost every other day for a poster to get a certain post, thread, or their entire account deleted because of situations like the one you mentioned.

Facebook is public. Instagram is public. Twitter is public. On here, you get to use an alias. Same with almost every other web forum.

Your whole argument makes no sense. Why does it bother you who does and does not have a picture? Just because someone posts a picture, does that make them more credible? More suave? Prior to the new forum upgrade, there were no avatars, no embedded files, nothing. Yet no one cared what the person looked like who was giving advice, if the advice was good and worked.

I'm willing to say this "issue" of yours is based on something that went on here. Especially given your example and recent issues you've had with certain posters. If you have such a big issue with someone over a picture (or something else) and your feelings got hurt, there is that "ignore" button that is widely available for you to use.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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