mrtrinidad
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I desperately need help in my situation. I don't know if I should make the attempt to try to get my ex back or just leave :kick:
I was seeing this younger chick (21)..I'm 33 for almost 6 months. She was one of those girls who gets alot of attention (works in a masssage parlor). I got her by being the chase and eventually landed up sleeping with her all the time until she felt that I was "***** whipped". (Even though I still sleep around
Unfortunately, I still got Oneitus & when I realized this I told her I needed time to focus on myself and a new business I was starting. I did this on her Birthday because I didn't feel appreciated on her birthday, especially knowing that her ex was calling. I had made plans for her during the day & didn't see her until dinner. I cut off all contact with her right after. I ignored all her calls and responded to her texts that I was in meetings all the time. Eventually I land up seeing her again for a few minutes & told her that the reason I have distanced myself is that I suspect she has a drug problem & that I believed that she is better than that. I let her know that I would always be there for her if she needed help & that I cared about her - but I couldn't ever allow myself to get close to some one with an addiction problem. She becomes pissed off and explains why she is acting ****ed up since her birthday because of problems at home. I still think that there is something more than that.
I continue to ignore her & answer my phone only when I'm partying with the boyz or hanging out with my other female friends whom she is jealous of. I have being doing all of this to "get over her" as well as let her know that I can live without her. I gave her all her pictures back yesterday. However, I miss sleeping & being with her. She asked me what I was doing for Valentines & I told her that I wasn't sure yet.
Would you recommend going out with her again so soon - knowing that she seems to love drama and attention? Or should I just move on and cut my losses short after 6 months of incredible sex and being with her. How should I go about getting her back again if you recommend me being with her?
Any advice from some true players, don waans, or anyone that has suffered from oneitus before would be appreciated.:rockon:
I was seeing this younger chick (21)..I'm 33 for almost 6 months. She was one of those girls who gets alot of attention (works in a masssage parlor). I got her by being the chase and eventually landed up sleeping with her all the time until she felt that I was "***** whipped". (Even though I still sleep around
Unfortunately, I still got Oneitus & when I realized this I told her I needed time to focus on myself and a new business I was starting. I did this on her Birthday because I didn't feel appreciated on her birthday, especially knowing that her ex was calling. I had made plans for her during the day & didn't see her until dinner. I cut off all contact with her right after. I ignored all her calls and responded to her texts that I was in meetings all the time. Eventually I land up seeing her again for a few minutes & told her that the reason I have distanced myself is that I suspect she has a drug problem & that I believed that she is better than that. I let her know that I would always be there for her if she needed help & that I cared about her - but I couldn't ever allow myself to get close to some one with an addiction problem. She becomes pissed off and explains why she is acting ****ed up since her birthday because of problems at home. I still think that there is something more than that.
I continue to ignore her & answer my phone only when I'm partying with the boyz or hanging out with my other female friends whom she is jealous of. I have being doing all of this to "get over her" as well as let her know that I can live without her. I gave her all her pictures back yesterday. However, I miss sleeping & being with her. She asked me what I was doing for Valentines & I told her that I wasn't sure yet.
Would you recommend going out with her again so soon - knowing that she seems to love drama and attention? Or should I just move on and cut my losses short after 6 months of incredible sex and being with her. How should I go about getting her back again if you recommend me being with her?
Any advice from some true players, don waans, or anyone that has suffered from oneitus before would be appreciated.:rockon:
