"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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To lay or not to lay/ progress.

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Early this summer I was hitting up the clubs for 3 weekends in a row. The third weekend I could feel that I was going to get laid. Guess what, I didn't but I did get as far as the girls house. I blew it in the cab ride because I started a discussion about 9/11. I was soooo stupid because she told me it was a downer. I got to her place but I just ended up in the kitchen calling a cab to take me home.

progress is intuitive. You can feel it because I bought condoms the night before.

but one thing keeps bothering me. Should I have had sex with her? She was a 4 but with beer goggles she was a 6. I have this theory that to start the domino effect of sex with HB's you have to have it with any girl.

what are your thoughts?"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Depends - if you are inexperienced and the chances of you meeting this girl again are slim then yes! Personal q: are you a virgin?
 
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If you've not had sex in 4 years then a 4 would do...

You see, the danger is that one day a HB comes along and you don't back up your DJ attitude and lingo with performance in the bedroom... that HB is going to go in search of some better sex

And really.. don't try to get deep with a girl on a cab ride home... be smooth, kiss, some kino etc etc... then fvck her brains out when you get to her place because most of the foreplay has been taken care of in the cab ride home, lol
 
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Yeah I'd say you should go for a 4 in that case. See it as experience and confidence builder - experiment in the bedroom and learn ;) - I mean, just the fact that your beating yourself up over ****ing up in the cab suggests you are a little to desperate, ultimately you should have the attitude that it doesnt bother you even if she was a 9!

Your theory probably isn't that far off as you need experience to portray genuine confidence - if a 4 is what's being offered thats fine. In fact in a way it's even better for experience as you wont have to worry about messing up so much as it doesn't really matter.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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