“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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To land the HB10.. how (technique)

IamtheAlphamale

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I'm gonna make this short. This is a pure technique. You need skill to do this still. Ok, you need a controlled environment where you can ensure you will have many encounters with the girl. First use some hardcore c and f and bust on her like crazy. Then relax and ignore her for a while.. like a week to a month. In this time if you created the proper attraction she will start trying to get your attention. After you have ignored her for a good amount of time move in again and use the c and f. Make plans but not date plans. Just let her know your going to a certain bar on a certain night. If she gives you any oh yeah maybe I'll see you there type thing. Be like Yeah I'll bet you'll find me.. stalker. To ensure she shows up. Keep your buzz to a minimum if its a bar you chose. Proceed to get her number. A bar is key for this if you have any kind of lack of confidence because your slight intoxication will cover this up. After you get the number if she does anything you don't like even minimally tell her your not sure about her so you will have to re-evaluate the situaion. Don't use those words but basically imply or say she has to prove herself to you more before you give her your time. Basically heres what will happen. Either she will start playing hard to get and it will be obvious because HB10's never had to do this so they suck ass at it, or she will throw herself at you hardcore. Basically in any situation where you can slow play a HB10 your chances are way up. Sure you could ask her out immediately and cut the games and stuff like that but it won't be as easy. She will be testing you during this to check to see if your as masculine as your showing her so just play the apathy game like you don't care when she gets mad at you. Don't ever be mean to her because this will screw your game, just bust on her using c and f a lot and make her try really hard to get you. If you do this properly she will practically want to marry you before you start dating. Basically this system should take about a month- a month and a half. Basically because she has to work to get you this is completely different for her and she will assume if your not convinced shes the goods you must be great with girls. You pretty much need to be pretty good at c and f and your game must be pretty good before this will work. You can't be an a f c because you will fail the testing when she gets mad or when she plays hard to get. Make sure she knows you dislike girls who play games and she will be more likely to throw herself at you. When you go out continue this extreme challenge type thing. Do not become bf gf with her for a while. Do not see her constantly. Make sure to really slow play the whole gig.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Paragraphs are your friend...
 

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IamtheAlphamale said:
I'm gonna make this short. This is a pure technique. You need skill to do this still. Ok, you need a controlled environment where you can ensure you will have many encounters with the girl. First use some hardcore c and f and bust on her like crazy. Then relax and ignore her for a while.. like a week to a month. In this time if you created the proper attraction she will start trying to get your attention. After you have ignored her for a good amount of time move in again and use the c and f. Make plans but not date plans. Just let her know your going to a certain bar on a certain night. If she gives you any oh yeah maybe I'll see you there type thing. Be like Yeah I'll bet you'll find me.. stalker. To ensure she shows up. Keep your buzz to a minimum if its a bar you chose. Proceed to get her number. A bar is key for this if you have any kind of lack of confidence because your slight intoxication will cover this up. After you get the number if she does anything you don't like even minimally tell her your not sure about her so you will have to re-evaluate the situaion. Don't use those words but basically imply or say she has to prove herself to you more before you give her your time. Basically heres what will happen. Either she will start playing hard to get and it will be obvious because HB10's never had to do this so they suck ass at it, or she will throw herself at you hardcore. Basically in any situation where you can slow play a HB10 your chances are way up. Sure you could ask her out immediately and cut the games and stuff like that but it won't be as easy. She will be testing you during this to check to see if your as masculine as your showing her so just play the apathy game like you don't care when she gets mad at you. Don't ever be mean to her because this will screw your game, just bust on her using c and f a lot and make her try really hard to get you. If you do this properly she will practically want to marry you before you start dating. Basically this system should take about a month- a month and a half. Basically because she has to work to get you this is completely different for her and she will assume if your not convinced shes the goods you must be great with girls. You pretty much need to be pretty good at c and f and your game must be pretty good before this will work. You can't be an a f c because you will fail the testing when she gets mad or when she plays hard to get. Make sure she knows you dislike girls who play games and she will be more likely to throw herself at you. When you go out continue this extreme challenge type thing. Do not become bf gf with her for a while. Do not see her constantly. Make sure to really slow play the whole gig.
BS, women are the same as men, what have YOU to offer, how good looking are you, do you have beautiful teeth, a great body, manicured nails, well dressed, clever, have common sense, etc............
No matter how C and F you are, or where you are, none of your BS plans will work, if you have nothing to offer.
However you can try your tactics on a HB 4.2 retard.
By the way, when you class a girl as a HB 10 perfect, then you, move yourself into the AFC group.
 

IamtheAlphamale

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edmond said:
BS, women are the same as men, what have YOU to offer, how good looking are you, do you have beautiful teeth, a great body, manicured nails, well dressed, clever, have common sense, etc............
No matter how C and F you are, or where you are, none of your BS plans will work, if you have nothing to offer.
However you can try your tactics on a HB 4.2 retard.
By the way, when you class a girl as a HB 10 perfect, then you, move yourself into the AFC group.
Thanks for the hostility. So umm... why are you at this site if you don't believe in its principles?
 

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IamtheAlphamale said:
Thanks for the hostility. So umm... why are you at this site if you don't believe in its principles?
Did not mean to be hostile to you, but if you treat a woman as a perfect 10, you will always be looking up to her and she down to you.
If you are average looking then there is more chance of getting a HG 4 than a HB 9, no matter what any DVD or book promises you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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IamtheAlphamale said:
I'm gonna make this short. This is a pure technique. You need skill to do this still.

Ok, you need a controlled environment where you can ensure you will have many encounters with the girl. First use some hardcore c and f and bust on her like crazy.

Then relax and ignore her for a while.. like a week to a month. In this time if you created the proper attraction she will start trying to get your attention.

After you have ignored her for a good amount of time move in again and use the c and f. Make plans but not date plans. Just let her know your going to a certain bar on a certain night. If she gives you any oh yeah maybe I'll see you there type thing.

Be like Yeah I'll bet you'll find me.. stalker. To ensure she shows up. Keep your buzz to a minimum if its a bar you chose. Proceed to get her number.

A bar is key for this if you have any kind of lack of confidence because your slight intoxication will cover this up.

After you get the number if she does anything you don't like even minimally tell her your not sure about her so you will have to re-evaluate the situaion.

Don't use those words but basically imply or say she has to prove herself to you more before you give her your time. Basically heres what will happen.

Either she will start playing hard to get and it will be obvious because HB10's never had to do this so they suck ass at it, or she will throw herself at you hardcore.

Basically in any situation where you can slow play a HB10 your chances are way up. Sure you could ask her out immediately and cut the games and stuff like that but it won't be as easy.

She will be testing you during this to check to see if your as masculine as your showing her so just play the apathy game like you don't care when she gets mad at you.

Don't ever be mean to her because this will screw your game, just bust on her using c and f a lot and make her try really hard to get you. If you do this properly she will practically want to marry you before you start dating. Basically this system should take about a month- a month and a half.

Basically because she has to work to get you this is completely different for her and she will assume if your not convinced shes the goods you must be great with girls. You pretty much need to be pretty good at c and f and your game must be pretty good before this will work.

You can't be an a f c because you will fail the testing when she gets mad or when she plays hard to get. Make sure she knows you dislike girls who play games and she will be more likely to throw herself at you.

When you go out continue this extreme challenge type thing. Do not become bf gf with her for a while. Do not see her constantly. Make sure to really slow play the whole gig.
You can read now :up:
 

IamtheAlphamale

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Actually because of my looks plus how well I use my **** I think I'd be off the charts so I still don't look up to her.
 

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So let me see if I understand. From your experience, your good looks and good game gets you quality women, i.e. HB10s? All good points, but there is nothing really new here that hasn't been said in other posts.

Hey how many times has this worked for you? Just curious. Are we talking f-closed, long term relationship? Thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJF or John

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My goodness the "point" of all the flames arrrreee????

First off, who gets laid and who doesn't get laid is unknown here and will never be known.

Take what you can from this site and apply it, don't spend time trying to see who's real or fake. How can you tell anyway?

What my buddy IamtheAlphamale is simply saying, is don't be on a girl's dyck so much.

Many times, many, many times, I always find that a hb 8-10 will always have a FLOCK of male friends. I mean a fvcking FLOCK.

And don't piss this chick off, don't bust her balls in front of these guys either, ooohh no. If you NEVER seen a captain save a h0e in action, you will now!

You'll be in a brawl and have no idea how and why you got there.
 

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Iamaalphamale is trying to get you to NOT be like these guys.

Instead, understand that you TOO are just as valuable SEX wise as this chick is. By understanding that and LIVING THAT (I mean by actually having sex with many women), then all of the usual worshipping crap that other guys do you won't do.

This is what he's trying to say to you guys. I mean, and what's with this site?

I can tell the guys that actually have in-field experience, becasue when they make a thread it's usually non formatted right, full of spelling errors, etc.

So how can I tell that by a spelling error filled thread that a guy has experience?

Because when I type, I type FROM MY HEART, FROM MY HEAD. I don't sit down and analzye what the fvck I am about to say, i just start syaing it.

And if I didn'thave IT...I wouldn't have shyt to say.

So why don't you guys show some fvcking respect?
 

IamtheAlphamale

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Its seriously rediculious. You try to help people and people flame you everytime. The people who flame are the ones who don't get any. How do I know? Because they are insecure enough to attack people for no reason when they are trying to help. This website is getting rediculious.
 

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IamtheAlphamale Maybe you should reevaluate what you type, Maybe you should try typing in paragraphs, and not one large ass essay ordeal, wait essays have paragraphs as well.

As for this site getting ridiculous, maybe you should think again, because if you can't even type properly, how is anyone going to take you seriously. Aside from that, I read about 1/3 of it and got lost in the bunch of BS I couldn't even hold myself from laughing. There is no such thing as a HB10, Maybe a HB9.9 But that's still pushing it quite a bit. Again a HB9 in your eyes is like an HB4 in our eyes.

We don't attack people for no reason, I'm not calling you a troll but you sure are acting like one, either that or you're a complete fool. But do remember Paragraphs, are your friends. Plus it wouldn't hurt to use spell check if you can't spell.

DJF or John Grow up and stop flaming, you sound like an 8 year old girl who just dropped her ice cream in a bunch of dog ****.

Flabbergasped? Agreed, close this ****ing useless thread so we can get on with our lives.

Wyldfire Well said about the paragraphs, they are our friends. Properly typed up paragraphs are very useful to others success, and/or trial and error.

Smoke
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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