"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sherineo

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Hey KontrollerX,

You seem to be the most experienced guy around as far as AWs are concerned...and your posts are extremely insightful...

Here's a request ....Please write an e-book about AW if you can...

I guess it'll be a great addition to sosuave literature...

AWs definitely need a separate ebook...considering how preciousit can be for the guys who are being manipulated by one such right now...

If I had access to your posts a few years back....I would have saved a lot of time which I wasted chasing AWs one after another...

thnx
sherineo
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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aix237

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the solution to AWs is to not be like every other guy out there and basically act super confident and bust on their balls all day long for a while. They have AFCs chasing them dont act like that then you will get them if you want.
 

IPalindromeI

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AW's are only as powerful as the attention you give them, and are only as attracted to you as the attention you refuse to give them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dannyegg4575

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When you understand this stuff, when you actually "get it", there is no need for a book or anything on it. Further reading and material only put you into stupid theories and philosophies.

As a DJ, you know that you don't need women to make you happy. You don't need to worry if she's AW or not. How she acts or what she says do not not concern you because you're out making YOU happy. so f>ck it.
 
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