jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
Unfortunately, we don't choose our genetics, but we can choose our appearance.
This post will be dedicated to the "unfortunate" ones who have genetic baldness.
To solve the problem, we have 3 solutions:
1) Shave your head: Depending on your facial features, this could be a pleasant surprise. You might actually look like a real man, but that's not the case for most people. Therefore, those who aren't satisfied will move on to option 2.
2) Hair transplant: A hair transplant works; they take hair from the back and place it in the areas where you've lost it. But for those who still have problems, it will be necessary to move on to option 3.
3) Medication: Currently, finasteride and minoxidil are used. They regrow hair and take you back to when you were 20. Really. There are many, but for some, there are no side effects, and that's a good thing because they've found a permanent solution. For others, however, there will be some side effects, and they'll have to stop taking it and move on to step 4.
4) Hair system or wig: here we can really go wild, and depending on your current appearance and face shape, you can achieve truly incredible results. There are high maintenance requirements, and some drawbacks.
Now let's get to the heart of the matter.
In the first three cases, you're treating something to regrow your current hair, or at least achieve a natural look.
Which comes from you.
In the fourth case, you're putting on makeup. You're putting something that doesn't exist, a foreign body on your head...
Now there will be men who in step 1 found themselves much more attractive bald than with hair who will tell you, "You don't need medicine or wigs, shave."
Those who have found the medication to be beneficial and have grown their hair back like a teenager will tell you, "Take the medication and give it at least two years to work; you won't have any negative effects."
Those who haven't found a solution but feel good with the wig will tell you, "The wig is better than having to take medications that affect your health."
The point is that the man is looking for a solution to this problem.
In all cases, there's an internal debate about self-esteem, but also an external debate about what is objectively "accepted." (In fact, the most stigmatized is point 4, followed by point 1. Points 2 and 3, however, seem to be widely accepted.)
Taking the blue pill means justifying the fact that others tell you "you look good shaved" when in fact you don't look good at all objectively. (But they make you feel good and you don't think about it at all.)
Or having to be honest and say, "I'm wearing hair extensions," and seeing others always think and look at your hairpiece when they talk to you in the future, or say, "You look really good with that haircut" (but they actually think you're insecure about it).
I think admitting it to your girlfriend will be the easiest thing in the world because she'll either accept it or not.
This post will be dedicated to the "unfortunate" ones who have genetic baldness.
To solve the problem, we have 3 solutions:
1) Shave your head: Depending on your facial features, this could be a pleasant surprise. You might actually look like a real man, but that's not the case for most people. Therefore, those who aren't satisfied will move on to option 2.
2) Hair transplant: A hair transplant works; they take hair from the back and place it in the areas where you've lost it. But for those who still have problems, it will be necessary to move on to option 3.
3) Medication: Currently, finasteride and minoxidil are used. They regrow hair and take you back to when you were 20. Really. There are many, but for some, there are no side effects, and that's a good thing because they've found a permanent solution. For others, however, there will be some side effects, and they'll have to stop taking it and move on to step 4.
4) Hair system or wig: here we can really go wild, and depending on your current appearance and face shape, you can achieve truly incredible results. There are high maintenance requirements, and some drawbacks.
Now let's get to the heart of the matter.
In the first three cases, you're treating something to regrow your current hair, or at least achieve a natural look.
Which comes from you.
In the fourth case, you're putting on makeup. You're putting something that doesn't exist, a foreign body on your head...
Now there will be men who in step 1 found themselves much more attractive bald than with hair who will tell you, "You don't need medicine or wigs, shave."
Those who have found the medication to be beneficial and have grown their hair back like a teenager will tell you, "Take the medication and give it at least two years to work; you won't have any negative effects."
Those who haven't found a solution but feel good with the wig will tell you, "The wig is better than having to take medications that affect your health."
The point is that the man is looking for a solution to this problem.
In all cases, there's an internal debate about self-esteem, but also an external debate about what is objectively "accepted." (In fact, the most stigmatized is point 4, followed by point 1. Points 2 and 3, however, seem to be widely accepted.)
Taking the blue pill means justifying the fact that others tell you "you look good shaved" when in fact you don't look good at all objectively. (But they make you feel good and you don't think about it at all.)
Or having to be honest and say, "I'm wearing hair extensions," and seeing others always think and look at your hairpiece when they talk to you in the future, or say, "You look really good with that haircut" (but they actually think you're insecure about it).
I think admitting it to your girlfriend will be the easiest thing in the world because she'll either accept it or not.
