"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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To hate the lover....or hate the love.

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So I have to admit that on more than one occasion I have actually seen women stay with and claim to be in "love" with certain men that we would claim to be anti-alpha and even rejects. Yet they're in love? And those women stick with them for years. Even breaking up with them on numerous occasions and then habitually going back. I've seen men (who couldn't have the women they want) threaten to commit suicide, claim to be soul mates, rely on the women physically and finacially , and yet the women always sticks? Is this the ever mysterious "true love" at play here? That maybe the real person to person connection regardless of sex or sex typical characteristics doesn't apply. That maybe the short comings of both male and female don't matter when the decision to be made about loving her and her loving you is actually there?

So the question is this:

If our goal is to constantly figure ways to make the women love us for our own needs.....then how can we ever find the need to love her?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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