"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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To hate the lover....or hate the love.

shawn3789

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So I have to admit that on more than one occasion I have actually seen women stay with and claim to be in "love" with certain men that we would claim to be anti-alpha and even rejects. Yet they're in love? And those women stick with them for years. Even breaking up with them on numerous occasions and then habitually going back. I've seen men (who couldn't have the women they want) threaten to commit suicide, claim to be soul mates, rely on the women physically and finacially , and yet the women always sticks? Is this the ever mysterious "true love" at play here? That maybe the real person to person connection regardless of sex or sex typical characteristics doesn't apply. That maybe the short comings of both male and female don't matter when the decision to be made about loving her and her loving you is actually there?

So the question is this:

If our goal is to constantly figure ways to make the women love us for our own needs.....then how can we ever find the need to love her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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