Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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To go or not to go for the UG ?

KneghtRyder

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if you do too many ugly chicks, you are subsciously sending yourself the signal, that you are only worth this level and you might not try for for the super hot HBs. As if to say this is the best you can do.

on the other hand, UG offer good practice and experience for a noob when he actually gets the opportunity at a HB 10.

so to do a UG or keep aiming for the HBs ? Whats the middle line here...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Malachi

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Ok from my own experience i would go with the UG's FOR NOW, until you have enough practise to aim alittle higher.

-malachi
 
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how bout instead of ugly girls, you stick to average girls first - average girls are just as easy as ugly ones, only less ugly :)
 

vorbis

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if you're inexperienced, then go for it. Its like most things in life, you need a bit of experience to compete at a high level. A boxer doesn't fight for the title without fighting at least 20 rubbish fighters beforehand. Think of it as proving your credentials :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ClassAct

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you guys are forgetting an important aspect: her friends. i can't tell you how many times i've begun talking with an UG and ended up with her hot friend. i was at a party the other night, and i approached an UG by herself, who seemed like a good opportunity to warm up my game with for the night. When i got to the point where i asked her, "so who are you here with?" she pointed to a group of 7 or so HBs on the other end of the room and said, "oh just those girls. They're my [sorority] sisters." Bingo, just like that i was in with an entire sorority. But this wasn't a limited experience. This often happens in night settings such as bars and clubs, where girls usually go out in large groups. So yeah, def approach.
 

sav

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wow, u guys have pretty low standards if you go for UG's.. and some are still not getting laid?

heh...

sometimes this place is pathetic....

if u arent attracted to her, use her to get with her friends... simple as that..
 

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I say go for the UG's. No one said you are getting married. The way I see it they are good for PRACTICE. I think a guy that goes out with, dates, bangs or whatever numerous ugs is soooooo far ahead of the game than the guy that has gotten with one HB in the last 4 years or none at all. You'll learn how to be a DJ way faster and naturally progress to better things with that experience. Most things you do in life, that are worth it, you start at the bottom. I know this guy that refuses to even talk to an UG but the guy still has the mind set of 13 year old when it comes to women because he has no experience with anybody! No how the hell is he gona get with a HB8 or 9. He's not!
 
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