"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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To get ripped legs..?

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I'm a skinny fellow and atm right now i'm working on my whole body doing the usual heavy weights on the upper body in order to get bigger however, my legs in which i dont want big since my frame will look funky that is if my legs got bigger. Is it a good idea to do squats, duckwalks, bearwalks, frogjumps in substitute for heavy weights?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why would you look funny if your legs got bigger? Your legs, thighs and back are the power house of muscle in your body. Compound exercises such as squats, deadlifts, rows will make your whole body bigger. You can do bicep curls until the cows come home, but you're not going to get "BIG" until you start using your whole body to lift the weights. Isolation exercises have their place. But it's not to gain over all strength and size. Again. Why would your frame look funny with bigger legs?
 

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if your legs get bigger the rest will follow and get bigger too
 

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Espi said:
There you go...don't fall into that trap thinking your legs are OK. They will be quickly outsized if you don't work them hard.

Squats are THE best way to develop strong, ripped legs.
Live and die on the squat rack. :up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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actually my legs are killing me
its been two days and i still feel soreness
its those wretched squats =[
 

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LOLPLZ said:
actually my legs are killing me
its been two days and i still feel soreness
its those wretched squats =[
HAHAHA Good! The more pain the better. Make sure to eat lots of protein. That will help cut down on recovery time. If your goal is to get big, than cut out all your isolation exercises and stick to those big compound exercises.
 

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As everyone else said, pump your legs, and your back, and you'll be huge everywhere in no time. All you gotta do is some squats, deads, pullups and some dips and eat the complete opposite of a somalian and you can put some major size on.
 

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mrRuckus said:
Death is very catabolic. I suggest against it.
Good point MrRuckus. You should probably eat a decent amount of protein and fat before you die to help prevent muscle catabolism. :up:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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donjuanjovi said:
HAHAHA Good! The more pain the better. Make sure to eat lots of protein. That will help cut down on recovery time. If your goal is to get big, than cut out all your isolation exercises and stick to those big compound exercises.

Somebody once told me (Warboss I think) that pain isn't always good. Being sore multiple days after can mean malnutrition. The day after? It's possible, 2, 3days? Maybe, any longer than that and you're either overtraining or not eating the right stuff...
 

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LMAO at MrRuckus!!!

Anyways, agreed- squats are the absolute gold standard of...everything. I've been doing 3 weeks of squats and my abs have grown more than doing crunches, leg raises etc. for a year. Absolutely amazing.

But anyways, I gotta question: Whats the best way to make those calves grow? And how many reps? Some people say "calves are different" and I'm tempted to agree- I find that I need more reps to tire those mothersf*ckers out! Any suggestions?
 
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