To get engaged or not?

[Purple-Haze]

Purplehaze, I think you were the only female poster on this thread and what you said was interesting. Do you REALLY think that if a man is really into his girlfriend or wife he doesn't look around? Every guy I know lusts after other women, most of them just don't act on it (a lot do though). Does this mean none of them are really into their other half?

Miles, I'm fully aware that everyone (both men and women) look. You however want to touch also. This is what differentiates you from a man truly in love. I am firm believer that you only go looking for outside love if something is lacking in your own R. Temptation is one thing, acting on it is a completely different game.

Obviously, I don't know you. What I say is based soley on your one post. You have been with her for 6 years, you've cheated on her and you continue to look at other women and admit that you may cheat again.

I made my comment based on this.

 

[logic1]

I have been with my current girlfriend for 6 years (she is 28). She is a great person and has stuck by me through a lot of stuff. She has always been loyal, caring, etc. She is intelligent and beautiful.


However when I consider being married to this person for the rest of my life I think it's almost inevitable that I will cheat again. Hell at this stage I think I would cheat whoever I was with.

I'm going to play the so called devils advocate. What is wrong with this woman? According to you.......nothing. So my question is what kind of line have you been telling this woman for 6 years? Apparently if she is the kind you are talking about, why is she still hanging around?? Unless she has been manipulated to think something different?

Something tells me she is on a completly different page than you.... WHY?

Dont get engaged for the womans sake. You have some issues that need to be worked out to be in a LTR. If you dont you will be 85 years old and a stranger wiping your *ss.

Nothing wrong with the players lifestyle but dont drag other people into it with them thinking something else. I feel you are not honest with your intentions with this woman.

I think you need to tell her what you told us. Then let things play out.

 

[Latinoman]

The huge issue here is that she wants kids and he doesn't. That on itself is a deal breaker for marriage.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

The huge issue here is that she wants kids and he doesn't. That on itself is a deal breaker for marriage.

:yes: Big time.