"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SnowBlind77

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this guy punked some sh*t from me, i dont know for sure if it was him but its one of those situations where it couldnt ahve been anyone else....should i fight him? even if it means im still not gonna get my sh*t back? Im not one to start fights, nor have i ever been in one.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SnowBlind77

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yea thats what i was thinking, like i dotn KNOW it was him, and i know i could knock the **** out of him and all that, but its more like....i want my **** back, and kicking his ass wont get it back either even if he does have it.
 

iLoveCookies

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SnowBlind77 said:
yea thats what i was thinking, like i dotn KNOW it was him, and i know i could knock the **** out of him and all that, but its more like....i want my **** back, and kicking his ass wont get it back either even if he does have it.
So you know you can beat him up. I mean yeah you could but really what is it going to accomplish? You are probably going to hurt your hand, you are probably going to get hurt yourself, because lets face it, neither of you know how to fight. Why dont you confront him and talk to him and see what you can accomplish with that, becuase you can always try to fight him later. Now I dont know how old you are but its in your best interest to stay out of legal trouble.
 

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chances are you'll fracture something in your hand/wrist, he knows who you are and can therefore press charges should he injure his hand/wrist/face/self. If it was anything expensive, alert the authorities. Remember, you're looking for your stuff, not a fight.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Testiculz

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sometimes the best answer is not violence, but in this world you gotta have balls to have things, and in your case...to get your **** back. send him a message...otherwise he wont respect you. even if its not him, use him as an example...
 
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