DonJuanabe
Master Don Juan
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Here is the deal: you will never know what the hell is going on with a girl until you take action and she responds physically in some way. Stop asking keyboard warriors whether she is interested. Stop asking whether you should escalate. Just do it and you will get your answer.
I've had it after my most recent dating experience. If I had escalated a week before I did I would have given her a mind-blowing orgasm and avoided getting c*ck blocked by the new guy who came into the picture just a week later. Why didn't I escalate beyond making out? Because I wasn't sure if it would be okay so I'd wait until our third date. Well, on the third date I was competing with someone else who apparently suffers from similar emotional issues she does, so I guess they click over something they have in common, despite it being dysfunctional.
If you want something, go for it. If you don't, then don't go for it. But just as you aren't sure what she wants, she isn't sure what you want UNLESS YOU DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. So if she's hoping you'll make a move but you don't you've let her down and given other guys a chance to do what you apparently don't have the balls to do.
Dating is about being selfish. It is about YOU. You disagree? Would you date someone you find unattractive? Would you bang a 200 whale of a girl? Would you wine and dine her $100 bucks each night because she wants that? Would you bang a girl if she had a sandpaper vag? You would only date a girl if you found her attractive and felt good having sex with her. Even when I play white knight I guarantee you if it meant I'd contract leprosy on my c*ock I'd be wearing black armor in a second.
Don't be stupid and overly aggressive so you sabotage yourself and stop asking questions that can only be answered by the actions you take -- take those actions and go for what YOU want.
I've had it after my most recent dating experience. If I had escalated a week before I did I would have given her a mind-blowing orgasm and avoided getting c*ck blocked by the new guy who came into the picture just a week later. Why didn't I escalate beyond making out? Because I wasn't sure if it would be okay so I'd wait until our third date. Well, on the third date I was competing with someone else who apparently suffers from similar emotional issues she does, so I guess they click over something they have in common, despite it being dysfunctional.
If you want something, go for it. If you don't, then don't go for it. But just as you aren't sure what she wants, she isn't sure what you want UNLESS YOU DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. So if she's hoping you'll make a move but you don't you've let her down and given other guys a chance to do what you apparently don't have the balls to do.
Dating is about being selfish. It is about YOU. You disagree? Would you date someone you find unattractive? Would you bang a 200 whale of a girl? Would you wine and dine her $100 bucks each night because she wants that? Would you bang a girl if she had a sandpaper vag? You would only date a girl if you found her attractive and felt good having sex with her. Even when I play white knight I guarantee you if it meant I'd contract leprosy on my c*ock I'd be wearing black armor in a second.
Don't be stupid and overly aggressive so you sabotage yourself and stop asking questions that can only be answered by the actions you take -- take those actions and go for what YOU want.