thelonewolflegend said:
Because of my past experiences with women in life and failing and being rejected and not feeling like I have a huge amount of personality or charisma to unleash onto the world I feel somewhat inferior not fully but definitely inferior to the higher status people I want to make friends with and women I want to sleep with. so I need help on fixing this problem and getting my mind not to think but also I need to be able to have more of a personality and be more of a funny fun guy to hang around because when I am with my girl I date I dont really say a whole much when I look at myself I am somewhat stuck in a mindset.
PLEASE HELP
you look at other guys who have the girls you want to date
only to some extend..mostly the techniques and or skills they have mastered.
After that you mold your own unique style that cannot be compared with anyone else's. Comparing is a bad thing you will always feel like crap cuz someone will always be better.
Only Compare yourself with a version of your older self from a month or year ago. and see if you have progressed.
Edit:
you don't have to be the funny guy if you don't have the talent for witty remarks.
maybe your'e the movie geek, or car guy, or motorcycle guy, maybe you like art or fine dining.
embrace the type of guy you are and you will get girls that are into
YOUR type.
That's what you want a girl that matches your style. Stop worrying about what the girl wants.
define yours then add the girl to it as an accessory
Damn dude i'm so fcking deep!
