"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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to every1 help(I feel I need high status males approval of what to do and say) cuz...

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Because of my past experiences with women in life and failing and being rejected and not feeling like I have a huge amount of personality or charisma to unleash onto the world I feel somewhat inferior not fully but definitely inferior to the higher status people I want to make friends with and women I want to sleep with. so I need help on fixing this problem and getting my mind not to think but also I need to be able to have more of a personality and be more of a funny fun guy to hang around because when I am with my girl I date I dont really say a whole much when I look at myself I am somewhat stuck in a mindset.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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thelonewolflegend said:
Because of my past experiences with women in life and failing and being rejected and not feeling like I have a huge amount of personality or charisma to unleash onto the world I feel somewhat inferior not fully but definitely inferior to the higher status people I want to make friends with and women I want to sleep with. so I need help on fixing this problem and getting my mind not to think but also I need to be able to have more of a personality and be more of a funny fun guy to hang around because when I am with my girl I date I dont really say a whole much when I look at myself I am somewhat stuck in a mindset.

PLEASE HELP

you look at other guys who have the girls you want to date only to some extend..mostly the techniques and or skills they have mastered.

After that you mold your own unique style that cannot be compared with anyone else's. Comparing is a bad thing you will always feel like crap cuz someone will always be better.

Only Compare yourself with a version of your older self from a month or year ago. and see if you have progressed.


Edit:

you don't have to be the funny guy if you don't have the talent for witty remarks.
maybe your'e the movie geek, or car guy, or motorcycle guy, maybe you like art or fine dining.

embrace the type of guy you are and you will get girls that are into YOUR type.
That's what you want a girl that matches your style. Stop worrying about what the girl wants.

define yours then add the girl to it as an accessory


Damn dude i'm so fcking deep!
 
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thelonewolflegend said:
Because of my past experiences with women in life and failing and being rejected and not feeling like I have a huge amount of personality or charisma to unleash onto the world I feel somewhat inferior not fully but definitely inferior to the higher status people I want to make friends with and women I want to sleep with. so I need help on fixing this problem and getting my mind not to think but also I need to be able to have more of a personality and be more of a funny fun guy to hang around because when I am with my girl I date I dont really say a whole much when I look at myself I am somewhat stuck in a mindset.

PLEASE HELP
Get some pu$$y. Get some pu$$y you can keep getting while you work on yourself. It doesn't have to be the finest. Get some that doesn't cause you drama. It will change your life for the better.
 
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