Visionist
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 27, 2016
- Messages
- 837
- Reaction score
- 876
- Age
- 38
So this chick is a petite, seemingly demure 6, attends the gym. She's 38 years old, unmarried and without kids.
I vetted her spinster status briefly today during our first meeting; probing her about her possible desire for children, or lack thereof. I didn't get a conclusive answer. She had mixed responses to my kino, slightly shrugging me off when I put my arm around her briefly, and starting to gently withdraw her hand, which I held onto longer than I needed to when explaining something to her. She however let me touch her arm several times and also her neck without issue.
She was introduced to me by a family member, and wants me to help her practice her English conversational skills, for a fee. She's introduced me in turn to an English teacher who wants to plug me into a veritable pool of students who want the same. It won't make me rich, but it's welcome pocket money right now.
I'm 31 years old and clinically need to smash. I don't care that she's post wall, I don't plan to marry her. Here's the thing; crapping where you eat is bad, and so the smart thing would be to friendzone her and use her to access social events, parties etc, where I can meet women who I don't have to worry about seeing again if things go to Hell.
I'm seeing her Wednesday, and she seemed happy to have our upcoming lesson as a date, out & about. I already conduct these sessions at the bar with dudes who wanna learn English, so it's natural. She made no attempt to include me in her weekend plans and I didn't ask.
I don't actually care about her interest level, which I suspect has everything to do with my English skills; I can escalate and see if she's DTF anyway.
Or shouldn't I?
Is she off limits because she's technically a "client"? There's no legal contract lmao. If she rejects me I need to be able to act like it's no big deal and go back to practicing English with her as if nothing happened. That would be a good test for me; I need to put myself in challenging situations to learn how I act.
Is it worth escalating? Or should I friendzone her and work my way into her social circle instead?
I vetted her spinster status briefly today during our first meeting; probing her about her possible desire for children, or lack thereof. I didn't get a conclusive answer. She had mixed responses to my kino, slightly shrugging me off when I put my arm around her briefly, and starting to gently withdraw her hand, which I held onto longer than I needed to when explaining something to her. She however let me touch her arm several times and also her neck without issue.
She was introduced to me by a family member, and wants me to help her practice her English conversational skills, for a fee. She's introduced me in turn to an English teacher who wants to plug me into a veritable pool of students who want the same. It won't make me rich, but it's welcome pocket money right now.
I'm 31 years old and clinically need to smash. I don't care that she's post wall, I don't plan to marry her. Here's the thing; crapping where you eat is bad, and so the smart thing would be to friendzone her and use her to access social events, parties etc, where I can meet women who I don't have to worry about seeing again if things go to Hell.
I'm seeing her Wednesday, and she seemed happy to have our upcoming lesson as a date, out & about. I already conduct these sessions at the bar with dudes who wanna learn English, so it's natural. She made no attempt to include me in her weekend plans and I didn't ask.
I don't actually care about her interest level, which I suspect has everything to do with my English skills; I can escalate and see if she's DTF anyway.
Or shouldn't I?
Is she off limits because she's technically a "client"? There's no legal contract lmao. If she rejects me I need to be able to act like it's no big deal and go back to practicing English with her as if nothing happened. That would be a good test for me; I need to put myself in challenging situations to learn how I act.
Is it worth escalating? Or should I friendzone her and work my way into her social circle instead?