"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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To Drink or not to Drink......

Do drink on the field or no

  • Yes--but not super drunk

    Votes: 11 31.4%
  • No--I wanna be 100% on top of my game

    Votes: 8 22.9%
  • It depends on the ambience

    Votes: 2 5.7%
  • Pace yourself, one drink an hour....

    Votes: 14 40.0%

  • Total voters
    35

Solomon

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I see various anwers and different opinons when it comes to drinking while out on the field. Just curious what your opinons are.

Personally I did a test, when I was sober or limited my drink to a super minimum, I noticed there lot of drunk sloppy chicks,

When It was the opposite way I was drunk there were lot of sober chicks, lol

Personally I think having a drink or two is ok, however sometimes a drink turns into 3 then 4 next thing you know, you zoned out. Hence I think being sober is personally the best, unless you out with friends and ain't trying to play the field then you can get blitzed all you want

thoughts?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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theunflushables

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A few drinks won't hurt. I usually limit myself to three or four drinks, depending on what I am drinking. That gives me just enough buzz to be even more witty and yet still have a pretty clear head and not slurring my words.
 

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Double post.
 

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agreed with unflushables. A few to get loosened up and stop then, before the whole falling down, slurring, and passing out on top of people part happens
 

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I usually drink when I'm out, but I like day game, cold approaches, and social circles for meeting women over bars and clubs. After a few years all the girls at the bars and clubs look and sound the same, with the same predictable conversations and behavior. Boring !

And drinking to excess rarely has good consequences, whether you're gaming or not. Not that I haven't done that plenty of times too lol.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Just don't get drunk... I see my friends getting pretty hammered around girls and flirting with them. You can tell the girls are getting a little annoyed or turned off.

Mainly, because, they are loud and keep talking and don't know when to shut up. Or the alcohol makes them say stupid things to offend the girl.

I'd suggest just have a few drinks (don't slam it down your throat) and relax. You feel good and you are more aware of what is going on.
 

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Do whatever you want to do.

Feel like getting ripped? go for it.

Feel like staying sober, then don't drink.

It really comes down to what you feel like doing. Anyone who says, "no don't drink ... stay on your game and keep a clear head" is full of it. It's sorta this weird recovering AFC b.s. that says that the second you get drunk you automatically revert to that old AFC and you have no control over it.

If you're truly confident and secure with yourself then drunk or sober shouldn't matter. You are who you are and if you change when you drink, then you're living a lie when your sober. Sorry to break it to ya,
 

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Really moderation and ambiance are the two right answers, but I voted for don't get super drunk. I don't know about one drink an hour, but show some self control.

Unless you're the designated driver, it makes people feel awkward when you aren't participating in the same activity they are (ever notice how drunk people talk to other drunk people, and more sober people tend to talk with the more sober people?)

On the other hand, no woman wants to go home with the ****-faced jackass that is about to hurl all over himself (or her). Stay classy. I generally get more "tipsy" than drunk when I'm trying to pick up girls, but what is really important is if you are enjoying yourself. Follow the pace of the evening, and try to have a good time.
 

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And, for the record.. if you get super wasted while out and get really sloppy and sick you probably shouldn't be drinking at all. The get sick-drunk thing is pretty childish. know your limit.
 

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Goddamn, this is why this site if f*cking gay. Do what YOU want!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Im thinking it depends where u go and the setting


I mean are u gonna hit a bar on spring break when every body is crushing beers and ur gonna pass on the drinks lol

Say ur at a more classy resturant with a bar and some cute chicks are around and u just ask for some ice water or something...Thats wayy different

It depends on the situation
 

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I think if you're gonna drink, be impressive like this guy.

 

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oakraiderz2 said:
Goddamn, this is why this site if f*cking gay. Do what YOU want!
Hahahaha, totally agree with you oakraiderz! :D


But it's not necessarily the site itself, it's more an issue of some of the people on this site not having the balls to make up a mind of their own...
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
Goddamn, this is why this site if f*cking gay. Do what YOU want!
... says the man with 4,000+ posts.

I like to have just enough alcohol to get that comatose feeling.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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