"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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To divirginize or to save money!?!!

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I haven’t posted too much of my own personal stuff in these forums but now I have a predicament. I’m going to write about this situation in black and white. I met a girl after I broke up with my gf who I have kept in touch with until now. Due to various issues regarding our jobs and her living in Alaska, we’ve kept in touch through skype but have not met up since I gamed her at the club while she was over here on business. She claims to have fallen in love with me and wants to meet me next month in Seoul to “get to know each other better”. The real incentive for me to meet her is that when we meet I will be able to finally fvck a virgin. I’ve never been with one before. I figured it would be something that would be harder to do as I got older. So for a time I was really interested in meeting back up with her. She seems to like me enough even though she appears to be insecure and has a bad temper but that’s not the point.

My questions is, is it worth it for me fork out $1000 USD for my tickets and the hotel and maybe an extra couple hundred for entertainment just to devirignize this chick? Is the chance to divirginize overrated? Thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've heard many stories from guys on here who all agree that its over rated. That being said, I'd spend the grand and think it was worth every penny.

The sex might not be amazing but that doesn't mean the mind fvck won't be great. Personally I find alot of sex is about stroking my ego, whether its getting girls in threesomes, or having a girl suck my shlong after I just finished banging another girl, I'm a bit of a prick when it comes to low quality women.

But I enjoy it and I do it for me. Don't do it for others but if your going to do it, do it and enjoy it, don't worry about the cost. Many guys will say that they would never travel or incur expenses to bang a pvssy but I'm all about adventure, I enjoy travelling, I enjoy women so I have no qualms about it.
 

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it could be argued that someone who would consider paying $1250 for the possibility of sex is a someone without a lot of female options.
 

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persistent exaction said:
it could be argued that someone who would consider paying $1250 for the possibility of sex is a someone without a lot of female options.

It could be but that doesn't make it true. I've paid that much and I guarantee I have more female options that you. Its all about what you value, many people place far too much value on stupid little pieces of paper called money.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I wouldn't do it, simply out of principle. A thousand bucks for pvssy? If we all look back and calculate the amount of money that goes into a chick before sex, we'd all arrive at figures that total waaaay less than $1,000. Some, I'm sure, are even on the negative money spent on them.

Besides, there's no 100% guarantee that there will be sex... and what if it's disappointing?

OP, if you're rich and you can easily drop that kind of money without thinking twice about it, then do it... but if you're an average guy making around 100K, then don't do it.
 

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persistent exaction said:
it could be argued that someone who would consider paying $1250 for the possibility of sex is a someone without a lot of female options.

Ding Ding Ding Ding Ding Ding
 

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To divirginize or to save money!?!!


Definitely divirginize.



Cheers!
 

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There's no guarantee she's telling you the truth about her being a virgin.

I'm generally about M.O.B money over b!tches but do what makes you personally happy.

Keep in mind though that women just want you to want them and once they find out what you want they'll lie to you and tell you that this is what they are be it a virgin or whatever so they can see that desire in your eyes.
 

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The vacation would be nice.. I just feel lazy. In fact I have been needing a vacation for awhile but part of me would rather spend that $1000 in Hong Kong with my friends getting drunk in Wanchai and dining at high priced restaurants in Central then taking the ferry to Macau to watch a donkey show out behind some seedy casino.

What I'm weighing is.. should I go on vacation with this girl or instead go with my HK friends. The only reason I'd consider going with her is that she is a "virgin". I value that cause well I do have Fbs (ages 22-30) but I don't have any virgin ones. So ya, I guess for the time being I am a man without virgin HB options. I'll update when I make my final decision, thanks for the help.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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MacAvoy said:
I've paid that much and I guarantee I have more female options that you.
Oh man, don't you just love little statements like this. Sure you do, MacAvoy, sure you do. We all think you're cool now, dude! And you just KNOW it, don't you? Right....:yawn:
 

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3countriesPlan said:
So ya, I guess for the time being I am a man without virgin HB options.

Yea, you and about 3 billion other men. Join the club. :up:


Cheers!
 
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Suppose she fvcks a guy a day before meeting you and catches STDs, or suppose she decides she doesn't want you, then what. Or maybe you find out that she's not a virgin you sick fvck. I'd like to see how you update this one.
 

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OK here is my update. No trip.
My boss told me and the other editors that the company is downsizing. She has a grim look on her face. We can change our roles in the company or walk. I'm leaning towards walking. So I'm going to need to have as much money in my account as possible. **** happens, I need to address that issue now before I go on any vacations.
 

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3countriesPlan said:
So I'm going to need to have as much money in my account as possible. **** happens, I need to address that issue now before I go on any vacations.

There's plenty of time to divirginize. It's good that you're getting your own house in order. :up:



Cheers!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do not be too consumed by the idea of 'devirginizing'. It is highly overrated. You would be a big fool to do so.

Just remember you are spending this money for 15 seconds of bliss. what happens after that? You are back to where you are now, just that you are shy of 1250 dollars.

If you have to spend your money - $1250 will get you an awesome threesome that will blow your mind.

I would save that money and invest it in something that would serve me for a very long time. - like fuel my passion for Dj'ing. Now that will also open me out to potentially 'layable' 1200 Chicks!

Do YOU have any passions?
 

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Your trying to impose your values on the OP. I agree with the three some comment though. I wouldn't mind lining up 3-4 escorts and banging them all in a row.

The other mistake your making is assuming that the OP doesn't already have game.
 
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