to confirm what needs to be done

[christz]

how long i known this girl isn't important its been a while lets put it that way. long story short. chick i been working on i kinda smelled player and schemer on her because she was somewhat flakey but always came through on CERTIAN occasions not all. first red flag yah i know.

she was also a little TO sexual.. and up for just about anything includeing giving out rim jobs.. uhh yeah i know red flag number 2

anyway she tells me why don't you surprise me and come over.. don't even tell me when your going to come over just come over to my place tnight.

i say fine.. so i do i arrive i don't see her car but decide to pull in. I notice the TV is on and so are most of the lights in the kitchen and all her **** is on the table.. so i knock on the door ring the doorbell no answer.. do this for like 10 minutes.. yeah i know..

i send her a txt like are you trying to make a fuc*ing fool outta me.. no reply so i leave.. i went to go get gas at a station near her place.. something musta been the wind whispering to me told me to go back I do.

ALL the lights includeing her bedroom lights are now on.. CLEARLY she was home and i was only gone for maybe 5 minutes. i txt her.. oops.. because i just caught her and i ring the doorbell and knock.. STILL no answer she pretended till the bitter end not to be home..

So confirm me everybody.. NEXT? or is there a plausable explination.. WHY THE HELL do you tell somebody to just come over and not tell you the time, if your just gonna **** them over? i'm really like wtf but at the same time.. just relived i can let this one go.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

What a b!tch... do you think she deserves a second chance?

Next.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

So confirm me everybody.. NEXT? or is there a plausable explination.. WHY THE HELL do you tell somebody to just come over and not tell you the time, if your just gonna **** them over? i'm really like wtf but at the same time.. just relived i can let this one go.

Let this be a lesson, NEVER play by her rules, instead act like the man you should be and set the agenda on your own terms. This was clearly a $hit test from her and you failed...BADLY!!! She wanted to see how tight she has the leash around your neck and you proved to her that its snug and fit.

Remember, when you let the girl lead, you also let her own your ballz.




PIMP

 

[christz]

maybe I did fail but she'll be expecting me to call today so she can spin it in some way to make it look like a big misunderstanding that call will never happen i may have lost the battle but in the end since I refuse to let this happen again I win the war against this one

 

[christz]

i wanna put up an update here and bump this. i have nexted her but this girl is close to me, we were close friends and i unfriendzoned her (maybe a bad move as she wasn't ready) but we've been close friends for about 4 1/2 years. and she was cautious and when around me always on the defensive emotionally call it the bit*h sheild.

regaurdless i txted her and i asked her for us to go out on good terms and just say sorry and let that be that. didn't get a reply and i knew i wouldn't i know this girl inside and out like a book.

today i basiclly said look i'm coming up to your dads house (a place where i'm always welcome) and she said don't come.. i said fine. Then i shot her a quick txt and said look, tell me then that you don't want me to come around or talk to me anymore and not to worry about how i felt about anything to just give me a cut and dry black and white answer.

she couldn't reply. Let me tell you this girl is the quickest to say get the hell out don't come back don't let the door hit you in the back. why is she hesitant to just say peace out. Honestly my gut is telling me that's not what she wants but right now its what i want. call it a guilty feeling for just leaveing her espeiclly since we were friends. I'm thinking the best course is to give this time. any words?

 

[marinetti]

i'd say she just wants to f*** guys and doesn't want to deal with any of this stuff you're throwing at her.

it was a bad decision to make a move on her, especially if you knew she was the town ho.

it would be healthier to find action elsewhere.

 

[cordoncordon]

My god man what are you doing????????

You went from begging to see her to now you are begging her to dump you? Do you have any self respect?

Dude, delete this girls number, NEVER EVER EVER NEVER talk to her again. And move on! This girl thinks of you as a doormat, no make that a toilet. She can sh!t all over you and you still keep wanting more.

Honestly, your behavior right now is about as bad as it can get. Why are you texting her when you just said you are nexting her? She should be apologizing her azz off to you for what she did. But she's a psycho...obviously.

Move on!!!

 

[christz]

My god man what are you doing????????

You went from begging to see her to now you are begging her to dump you? Do you have any self respect?

Dude, delete this girls number, NEVER EVER EVER NEVER talk to her again. And move on! This girl thinks of you as a doormat, no make that a toilet. She can sh!t all over you and you still keep wanting more.

Honestly, your behavior right now is about as bad as it can get. Why are you texting her when you just said you are nexting her? She should be apologizing her azz off to you for what she did. But she's a psycho...obviously.

Move on!!!

we were never offical, and we were good friends before i decided to unfriendzone her. In my mind it merits a try.. its not like its some girl i just met.. he'll i've been friends with her since seinor year high school.

my attitude is one part fustration because she loves to run from problems she always has with other dudes not me. and she hates confrontation. and one part i don't give a crap. Everybody is right.. i know and i will. its not like i'm blowing her cell up. i sent a few txt today and that was it. aside from that i haven't called or anything

as for the doormat.. possibly so in the end asking for resolution only creates more problems.. something about closure just helps things go by. But i can see i won't get that here. So i gotta just cut my loss.

i know the question "WHY" can consume a guys mind, i've learned that from past exprience, just sucks to see ANOTHER friend i've unfriendzoned get cut.. last one was a friend of six years. Maybe i shouldn't do that anymore because it always sucks to lose a friend be it male or female