"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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To call or text?? Need some advice guys

the-tech-guy

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Okay, last night I went out with mates to rave and was trying to pick-up all night, there was a girl who was with us and I barely even paid attention to her because I was having a ball and way way to drunk.

Towards the end of the night, she ended up coming over and dancing with me and then just grabbed her and kissed her all night and exchanged numbers, we left for another club and got separated.

I went to one club and she went to another, I left to go home then she texted me that she changed to the club I was at and I replied that I had left then she sent me a few more texts and a good night message.

That was Friday night and its now Saturday night, should I call her, text her or wait another day?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Black.Magic

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the-tech-guy said:
Okay, last night I went out with mates to rave and was trying to pick-up all night, there was a girl who was with us and I barely even paid attention to her because I was having a ball and way way to drunk.

Towards the end of the night, she ended up coming over and dancing with me and then just grabbed her and kissed her all night and exchanged numbers, we left for another club and got separated.

I went to one club and she went to another, I left to go home then she texted me that she changed to the club I was at and I replied that I had left then she sent me a few more texts and a good night message.

That was Friday night and its now Saturday night, should I call her, text her or wait another day?
text. calling is for baby-boomers. and text tomorrow, project the image that you're too busy on a sat night to text somebody you barely know.
 

TheCWord

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Do whatever you want. You're going to die eventually. You really want to spend your living moments trying to calculate how many days to wait to text a girl?

Be confident, know what you want, don't settle for less and don't give her too much at first - after that you can do whatever you feel like.
 

TheException

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text. calling is for baby-boomers. and text tomorrow, project the image that you're too busy on a sat night to text somebody you barely know.

This^

I never call. Texting has provided so many advantages to a phone call, not to mention how easy it is to do. Send a text then get back to owning life.

But as stated by blackmagic i dont make plans on weekends with girls i just met. If she flakes(and every girl does) your left blowing yourself on a saturday night. Hit her up sunday chat a bit then maybe tuesday make plans for thursday.
 

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Not to make things personal @ 1st is why I always text. If you call her never leave a message. Girls won't call back if they already know why you called her.
I use the 2 texts rule. If you text her the 1st time & did not get a response. Wait like an hr. or so & try again. On the 2nd text if you get nothing back than screw it. Either 1 text & 1 call or 2 texts & be done with it. If she contacts you in her own time don't answer her right away regardless if you received a text or call. From this point do as you wish. If you feel she is worth pursuing than go for it. If not, than block or delete #.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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