"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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To call or send txt message!

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OK, long story short..

I met a girl over internet last year, got her msn and chatted with her for like a month or two and then I broke connection becouse of personal reasons.

Anyway, now a year after i saw her profile again on web and got her msn again.

She complained and asked why I blocked her and shait.

an now, two minutes earlyer I just finished my msn chat with her. I did my "supperior" rutine, acted like I don't give a damn and gotten her nummber. It went something like this. (didn't save msn script)

We are basicly in the same town and ware talking about alot of shait. Among others she was telling me that she is going out and asking me where I'm going.


her: coming right back
me: bad girl (min later)
her: back
her: i'm buzy girl
me: going to toilet and back don't make you a buzy girl
her: no, i was on the phone.
her/me: (dont remember)
me: I am buzy man too and now I got to go.
her: ok
her: bye
me: give me your number, and I'll call you tonight
her: why would you wanna call me?
me: to see if we are in the same area
her: don't call
her: send txt message
me: are you shy to talk to strangers?
her: no, I'm not
(I just wait)
(And then some more)
her: 99 88 77 66 (gives me her number)
me: ok
me: ciao

So my question is,Do I listen to what she was saying, and send her just a text messange or do I act bold and call her?

(need fast respons)

Dude
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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why is she afraid of you calling? well one things is for sure don't sit there waiting for her tell her to text you!
 
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she don't have my nummber. I got hers.
It realy is a very simple question.

Do I call?
or Do I send her text message?
 
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So... do you wanna know what happend?

I called her at 01 am and no answer. So I send text msg, "Where are you?" but I get no answer. I didnt think of it much and in the end of the evning I go home and sleep.

Next day I wake up and find I got a text msg from her saying she forgot her phone at home (bs). So she asked me how my night went and I didnt say anything. She sent msg at 07:55 in the morning ffs. So at 11:30 she sends another msg and ask's me if I'd be going out tonight too. So I play it cool once again and try to don't give a shait. But she is all over me and it seems like she wants to have contact with me. So she ask's me what I'll be doing and I tell her (don't remeber) and ask what she'll be doing tonight. So she is like "whell, my sister can't go out and my friends are buzy so I guess I'll be going out alone maybe". Now if this isn't IOI, I don't know what it.
So I tell her that my sister is haveing a burday party at her place and that she is invited. So she says something and I tell her to meet me at the subway station at 1900. Then she is like "I'm at work now, so I'll be a bit late" and I am like "subway station at 1900. see ya" and I end it with that. Now I suppose she'll maybe come like 15-20 min late so I plan to come there at 1930. After her.

So, do you guys think I acted like I should have`?
 
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Honestly lol, it sounds all like BS to me... From both sides... It is like yall are playing each other.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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she's hot, so I know she is trying to play me
 
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Then go ahead and win the game, think it through.

If I tell you or anyone else does it wont help you, you have to figure it out by analyzing your situation better, and then acting accordingly.

Good Luck.
 
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