"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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To Buy Something Special Or Not Buy

Bigtrucker2008

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Simple question: Should you ever buy your main chick a gift? Or would this look too "simpy"?

This is a chick you already have pulled and been effing around with for a long while now.

I was thinking of buying a chick a gift to let her know she means something to me over other chicks (or at least, make her feel like that anyways). But I was thinking of getting some sexy lingerie or something.....something that I could enjoy also. But thats all I can think of.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Warrior74

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What holiday is it? What did she do special that warrants special treatment?
 

DJCorleone

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Done right I think giving a gift can mean a lot to a woman, for example I listened to my girl talking about something she wanted, that she used to love, and I bought her it. Wasn't expensive, but it meant a lot. I'd only give gifts if they mean alot, and sparsely, instead of just buying any crap because its shiny (oh-diamonds!) and lavishing gifts upon the girl.
 
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