to be trully self content.

[skeeloo]

or to be trully self confident.

how many of you self improved guys are trully happy? i mean you got the body now? right.. you wear nice labelled clothes?.
but when it comes down to your own being.. are really happy.

about showing off--- who are you showing off too?

i worked out which did me alott GOOd and wore nice jewery- but it got to the point where i wasnt even happy because i needed these things to feel complete b4 i stepped out my door even to a store for god sakes.

tru happiness for me came when i wore my fruit of the loom cheap tight shirts and jeans walking on my way not really grooming my self like a model anymore.

lets just say being broke changed me for the better though i suffer and im always scared where my nxt rent moneys gonna come from.

it made me not give a **** about impressing women. though being broke is fuked-up i never want to be broke and hope ill be outta the phase soon. but it kinda helped me.in the sense that sometimes simplicity was the way forward for me.

ask your self who are you doing it for?
im broke now and id like nice things but you know what , if i get some money, material things like jewery and a nice car- i wouldnt do it for women anymore.

in simple terms people who like expensive stuff. like expensive clothes and jewery do it to please others.
money attaracts women but most financially unstable players are successfull because of thier own life experiences,.. somthing many people will never learn on here. go out and experience your own life.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

"Just do it...."

...for yourself....

 

[KontrollerX]

Thats kind of the whole point of being a DJ that so many misguided youths don't understand.

Your life and what you truly want out of it are the first priority of being a DJ.

Women are to be compliments to that life not its sole purpose.

 

[lurker]

been looking for this thread for some days now. i think this should be the first and last thread you read before you enter and finally leave this site. alotta posts here are misguiding but this is simple and straight forward.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Thats kind of the whole point of being a DJ that so many misguided youths don't understand.

Your life and what you truly want out of it are the first priority of being a DJ.

Women are to be compliments to that life not its sole purpose.

This and the fact that they put more emphasis on how other people feel about them than how they feel about themselves.

 

[MR_PERFECT]

Skeeloo, good post. I was talking to someone about working out again - I was in pretty good shape once. The only reasons I worked out when I was younger was to get women and because I was too broke to do anything but go lift weights. Now, I would like to get in shape again, but the motivation is just not there. I'm more confident now than I ever was when I was in shape, despite the fact that I'm 20-30 lbs overweight. And you know what? I still get attention from women when I go out. They'll come over to talk, ask me to dance. I've come to the realization that there are special women out there, but they're rare. Most women are bad in bed, so why should I work so hard to get them.

I'll get in shape again, but it'll be for other reasons, like being healthy just in case I have kids late in life.

 

[skeeloo]

i get what your'e saying mister perfect. i was at the point were i worked the whole week just to spend my money chasing ass on the weekends. for women that wernt even good in bed, we men never realise these things lol.


anyway an old lady once came up to me i was at the street waiting for a bus and just like the movies she told me why am i angry she said she can see i was broke and depressed but she said being broke opens your eyes to how real the world is. id advice everyone to try it sometime lol, try getting broke for a little while and be unplugged from your bubble gum life for a while and find the real you.find your limit and your redemption. then she left. was a wierd day for me that day.